However, have you ever met people who, after an argument, do not recognize where they were wrong and release this famous phrase: “I am like this, I have a strong genius. “However, do you have one? Strong genius: this cannot be a way to justify mistakes, bad manners and unlimited stubbornness.
Or maybe you, at some point in your life, realized that you were saying those words?Do you have a strong genius? That’s not bad; what is harmful or less healthy is to use it as justification for outbursts of anger, screams and bad words addressed to the other person.
- But what about having a strong genius? We often associate this quality with people who change easily or who.
- When they argue.
- Think that if they raise their voices they can end the conflict.
- Making the other person feel inferior.
- People who don’t want to listen are also wrong.
- Considered having a strong genius; that go from one war to another when they could have avoided a lot of suffering if they had leaked the information coming from outside instead of ignoring it.
We also confuse the strong genius with those who dogmatize with absolute arguments, people who do not give up on dialogue or negotiation, probably because that is what they saw inside the house or because they managed to survive by other means.
They think that by expanding they manage to diminish the other (when does the other allow himself to decrease? Because there are also people who do not change their height), so we could confuse the strong genius with these narcissistic traits.
Therefore, strong genius is a confusing concept, at least in popular language. At the end of the day, these are just words that we use to name something that exists and has a repeating pattern.
Well, people who “have a strong genius, ” far from what may seem, are assertive people. They have well-defined limits by which they protect themselves from intentional manipulation and damage that others may attempt to inflict on them.
Someone with a strong genius is far from aggressive, looking to intimidate his voice and his absolute arguments. To have a strong genius is to be an integral, respectful and respectful person. fear, but who is also not afraid to acknowledge doubts when they appear: he knows how to recognize reason when the other has it.
These people don’t change their stature. They are not diminished by the blackmail and manipulation of others, nor do they attempt to magnify the the most to intimidate and be seen and respected. The strong genius has more to do with the congruence between what a person thinks and does.
You may have ever met people who boast with astonishing vehemence of being independent and not leaving (no man/woman) trampling them, but at first change, they bow their heads and do what others want. They crossed his red line.
On many occasions, it is these people who are going to harshly criticize those who do what they have done. “You let them trampl you, and you must be an independent woman. You’re too weak. Let yourself be manipulated from the first change. “So everyone benefits from you, demanding respect!?
Subsequently, these individuals are unable to recognize that they too have crossed the red line. The difference between the two is that the former boasted fiercely of being in a different way than they describe with the way they acted.
Some mistakes have important consequences, but not assuming or recognizing them says more about the person than the mistake itself. There’s nothing wrong with finding out we’re failing or realizing that we’re doing things that weren’t what we thought we could do.
We’re human. We learn by walking. Experiences give us the opportunity to get to know each other and get to know each other, experimenting is logical and healthy. To know how to forgive ourselves, but without forgetting that it is the congruence between what we think and what we do that will give us the sense of inner peace that we seek so much.
The harmful and harmful thing is to live under the banner of incongruity, under blindness imposed by ourselves in the face of reality, recognizing our mistakes and being able to realize them in the future will help us to be like the honest people we talked about earlier. .
So you dare to seek that integrity and that strong genius (healthy for you and your relationship with others) that you can also keep in yourself?