This is not an article about motivation. With these words I try to convey the idea of movement.
It is a text about the activity and those uncertain little steps that we take towards a destination that we only know how to project, but that never seems to happen.
- There are many reasons why we are “static” and.
- Unfortunately.
- Certain circumstances or moments in our lives force us to remain in this state.
These are the moments when life seems to stop us and our dreams are simply something distant and impossible that we see from our window.
Obviously we’re all fighting for something or someone (or both), but how do we recognize that we got where we wanted to go?
There seems to be little sign to tell us
In fact, it seems that happiness is a passing and fleeting emotion that is diluted when our head tells us, “yes, but. “In fact, this sadness, to its right extent, is also necessary to value good times.
Any decision involves giving something up, and there may always be doubt as to what it would have been like if we had followed this path we abandoned.
But what if this road we left behind wasn’t really in vain, but a necessary crossing to get to where we are?
It seems that we are used to working for goals, so when we finish one satisfactorily, we feel happy and satisfied.
However, soon after, our mind sabotages us with new doubts and concerns that lead us to ask ourselves whether it was actually a significant gain or whether, on the contrary, it was simply a failed attempt.
And will we ever feel good about ourselves?
Yes, movement is important. But excessive movement to achieve an abstract goal becomes obsessive and detrimental to our self-esteem, and can also affect our worldview and relationships.
Every little step we take is important.
There are many reasons to believe that chance is the result of small actions that we take and that, in most cases, we did not know where we were going, only crumbs that we left behind and do not even realize.
But believe me, every step has been decisive in the process of our lives.
We’re used to using the expression “the world spins,” but it actually only rotates if we move the wheel.
From the sofa of our house, it is impossible to change our world, but it is also impossible to reach what we call destiny with exaggerated and excessive self-demand. Apparently, as always, the secret is in the middle.
There are many things we want to do that stay in our thinking out of fear. We are projecting a catastrophic future full of insecurities, irreparable damage and early breakdowns.
This happens with small movements and also with great life goals
In the first case there is a solution: do it; In the second case, there’s another one: be patient and keep your feet on the ground, because in the face of too difficult goals, chances are we’ll fail in the short. Term.
You’ll notice that there will be a thousand and one excuses not to do this, and your fears will look for reasons that support your hypothesis, but have you really tried yourself?