I’ll tell you, how hard it is to be a woman! It’s not an impossible mission, since we all survive, each in its own way, comforting, affectionate and modus operandi, but will you tell me it’s easy to live without guilt?Oh, no!
First, I don’t know who invented bra burning and the fight for equal rights, and I didn’t remember at the time, that we wanted to drive things other than the stove, wet my belly in the pool and not in the tank, stand upside down, do nothing, not because I’m crazy. What has happened is that we have accumulated functions.
- Well.
- Do men do a lot of things today?Would he do nothing less than the obligation to work with the environment in which he lives?.
21st century and little has changed for us. We vote, drive, wear pants, work (for a lower salary) and celebrate Women’s Day. I don’t like it. Women’s Day is every day, because we are a human being, why?Have they changed much? And the demands of society, the family and the worst of all have been reinforced.
? I don’t want to study, I want to be a housewife. ? Housewife? Are you going to wash, iron and cook the rest of your life? It has no value, you see, your husband will end up changing you for a more interesting one. ? I don’t want to be a housewife, I want to study. ? Ah, but you have to learn to take care of the house, at least the basics, otherwise when you have someone, they end up changing you for those who take better care of them. ? I want to go out with me. ? Very early, she will study first. ? I don’t want to go out, I’m going to study. ? Xi, it will be blocked, huh! ? Let’s get married. ? Are you sure? Look, marriage ruins everything. ? Let’s go out together, we don’t want to get married. ? Ah, stop, it’s nice to have someone. What relationship is the one that marries and does not? ? I want a child ? Son? It’s for life you know Life changes forever, as you will see, sometimes it even separates the couple. ? Ah, what a blessing, my son joins the family. ? I do not want children. ? You will not do it? But God created you for that. ? When will they have children? ? When are you going to get married? ? Don’t you want to have one more? ? Three? ? Are you staying home? ? Do you work all day? Who cares for the children? ? Poor kid, so little at school? ? Wow, isn’t he going to school yet? ? Are you still wearing a diaper? What did I do like this?
People? Talk to me, is it or not to remember that Tio was singing and screaming?It burns me, it makes me tired ??
But it’s nobody’s fault but ourselves. The thing is, a lot of women are sponges and we absorb everything around us.
Our problems, children, husband, dog, parrot, parakeet, mother, uncle, nephew, boss, we are listening to all opinions, swinging on the tightrope to do what is best for everyone and end our mental health. take care of ourselves and we are rarely proud of the warrior we are. How many of us can say we can really live guilt-free?
You can’t! That’s right, you can’t and it’s over. Let’s get the towel out!Enough!
I want to lead the life that suits me best, social impositions, conventions, ideals of the Church, my grandmother or the neighbor.
I want to have as many children as I want, in the family format I want, take care of my life as I see fit and pay my bills as I think I should, I’m no different from any other human being with his own life.
It turns out that you forget, and most people forget, that a woman is also employed, mother, nanny, nurse, doctor, secretary, lover, housekeeper, washerwoman, cook, carpet, seamstress, psychologist, entrepreneur, administrator, but above all (and more) is a person, like you there read to me. A human being, I’ve heard that with hot blood, vital organs and everything, like other human beings, I don’t know if that’s true.
Do you have an independent production?A? No, you never get married ten times?To be a virgin forever, to have sex on the first date?Do you dive into another city to find a love?
What if I decide, like the one who doesn’t want anything, to live like everyone else?
Hi? You respect me ?!
Respect me! I live my life!
But it is? We’re in the 21st century and being a woman is always a fault. Why do we have to be “woman, ” not anyone, not human?Spouse? This immaculate and respected deity, the others?You mustn’t get married, man, out as long as the time is right!Do you have a strong personality? Xi, it’s going to be, isn’t it?
There are days when I have thought of a message I have received, from a mother who tortures herself because of being happy with an only child, but feeling the weight of thinking that she is a bad person for not wanting more children. It all comes down to the guilt she has learned to bear, to think that she must have a family that society imposes on her, it goes against what really makes her happy.
And so, by conceiving how to live by standards, what is expected of us, we do not live it, we have spent our lives receiving handouts from the annual messages that show how special we are to be women, experiencing inequalities and prejudices as on my grandmother’s day, nothing has changed. We are only more modern, because now we work outside (to help at home, most of the time).
We don’t know how women manage to walk the tightrope, but these beings who should be studied by NASA manage to go to the supermarket with children, change diapers in the middle of the races, do nails with the baby on their lap, take their children to school, go to work, keep the house, educate the children, spend the night with this nightmare or anguish , pay bills, have PMS, get a child out of bed, resolve sibling conflicts, teenage conflicts, take medication, bathe, bathe, do number one and two with the door open, have a migraine and clean the house on a full Sunday. Yes, they do.
It’s easy, don’t I know? All I know is that’s always the case. I don’t know how to live an “easier” life, I just know how to live.
You know?
Then? Let’s live without guilt. There’s no one with dramas bigger or smaller than the others here. We all live and fight our inner monsters.