When we decide to have a child, we often don’t really think about the work and responsibility that comes with it.
Let’s bring a person into the world. Someone who will grow up the way we educate him and create him. This is the real work, which requires more effort, but that’s what will make us happier.
Are we doing something wrong? That’s a question we should always ask ourselves.
In such cases, a correction is necessary. We are not talking about anything passing, the education our children receive will define what they will be tomorrow.
“The future of children remains today
Will it be late tomorrow?
However, it must be something that you remember well about your childhood and that you inadvertently reproduce in the same way with your children.
If you only pay attention to your children when they do things wrong, when they cry, they speak badly, aren’t they responsible, you put aside their positive actions.
Not reinforcing positive things makes them unhappy and happy when they’re doing something right.
A single positive word from parents will make them happy when they notice their parents’ pride.
Although this does not seem, unconsciously we can reinforce negative actions, not only ignore positive ones, but also focus on those we blame so much.
If you only pay attention to your child when he or she cries, throws a tantrum or makes himself known, you’ll send him the wrong message, he’ll know exactly what to do to get your attention. The question is, what if he doesn’t succeed someday?
Standards are necessary because they teach our children to meet them, as will happen tomorrow at school or at work.
There are parents who do not agree to set standards, although they are very few, what is more common is the tendency to be inconsistent with them.
The rules are not only valid for children; If you don’t follow them, your children won’t understand why they should comply.
Why am I older? Because I say you’re not teaching your child these acts correctly. The standards are the same for everyone.
Well, it’s true that boundaries must be present, children aren’t born learning, and you have to teach them how far they can go in certain situations.
It is also not necessary to cut the wings, as it can cause the opposite effect. They must learn the rules to avoid being rude or disrespectful.
Kids learn fast, so the faster you act, the better Before you think, the bigger and everything you haven’t learned will be counterproductive. Above all, be firm, responsible and consistent. Your children will thank you.
Of course, it’s important to pay attention to our children, but we need to make sure they don’t think they’re at the center of everything and everyone.
We often criticize people who are at the center of the universe; Don’t make your child think it’s all about him. This will make him un generous to others, not in the materialistic sense, but in the emotional sense.
You need to be empathetic and know that you will not always be the center of attention; others will also occupy this place.
“Is there nothing going on using the word? No? Sometimes?
Shouldn’t you always consider your childish ways, your needs, your fears?Your children must learn to defend themselves.
Whether they see themselves as the center of attention and you have to attend to their needs at all times, they won’t know how to combat the adversities that can arise without warning.
Giving in to whims and tricks, not being firm or not complying with rules and limits will ensure that the education you believe in giving your child doesn’t pay off.
So ask yourself if you’re okay, discuss your children’s behavior and learning, they’ll be what you teach them today.