We were a story I’ll read a thousand times.
Bob Marley
- We all know what love is.
- The steps it takes and what it takes to keep it alive.
- But what about the “impartial” phase.
Yes, it happens, too. We fall in love, but we also fall in love, the question is why and how it happens. Can we avoid it, will we still fall in love with the weather?
Let’s find out!
When we fall in love with someone, we are attracted to that person, so why do we suddenly stop being attracted?Are we tired?
Attraction is one of the first steps in passion that fades over time, the nervousness we felt when we received a call, for example, was left behind, when the person asked us out or when we wanted to be surprised too?is this going? Our bodies have changed. We’re not the same anymore. The routine has begun to take effect.
Something we don’t like because it doesn’t bring us anything good: boredom and monotony, before everything was new and now everything stays the same. Where was what surprised us in the past?Have we missed the plans we made together, there’s no more spontaneity.
Is the lack of physical contact the result of a custom, a routine?We begin to suppress the displays of affection in public and the tender words have disappeared from our vocabulary. There is a routine and it “accommodates” us, but over time it has consequences We start to get tired of our partner and, above all, to see defects where we had not seen them before.
Why was everything perfect in the beginning and not now? How did all these flaws suddenly appear? Were we blind? It is also one of the phases of love, when we see the exalted qualities, we raise them at the beginning, but when we see them as they are, we no longer like them.
We are getting tired of these behaviors that we used to tolerate and we don’t mind saying everything we think about our partner, without wondering if we’re hurting him or not. Before trying to be more empathetic, more understanding?And all of a sudden we become slaves to complaints, problems and even arguments.
Very important in any relationship: communication. He can never fail, otherwise the relationship will be lost.
It is necessary to interact with the couple. But be careful, we’re talking about talking, not arguing. Exchange your desires, your emotions and trust yourself. All of this is also lost when the attraction ends and when we start to see flaws. Don’t we recognize our partner anymore? We often see a stranger.
I’m sure you’ve heard this phrase “I don’t love you anymore, but I’m very fond of you. “All of the above ends at this point. This is where the line between love and affection is perfectly located.
Although we fell in love, we feel fond of that person with which we share a part of our lives, they were good and bad times, and we all live, it was an important part of our lives and we don’t consider it a negative thing, but?Love is over.
As mentioned above, does the strength of the routine and the passage of the years cause desenchantment, lack of communication?All this makes love a mere affection.
And now comes the big question: can you avoid being without love?That depends. Not all couples are able to preserve love over time, so many think love has an expiration date. Perhaps your partner’s affinity and personality type influence the length of love. Good mood, positivism, doing things together, having fun? It usually helps, but it depends on how we sleep and how we felt.
Does all love between couples become love?Do you think it’s possible to keep me from liking it?
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