How to detect negative people? How to become aware of their behavior? Sometimes we fall into the stereotypes and errors of attributing negative, inappropriate and toxic behaviors to other people, ensuring that our own behavior is free from all negativity.
Obviously, this is not true, although there are people who have negativity as a flag and are not shy when it comes to sharing what they say and do, it is likely that we all become negative people after having a bad day.
- Why are we asking ourselves the question in this article?What makes people negative? We should be aware that these behaviors are more harmful because of their frequency and intensity.
- And that negativity is not an absolute and always has a degree.
- But the thing is that it is in your hands to prevent these behaviors from being repeated.
- As soon as he realizes his nature.
The main difference between negativity and lying about personal conflict is that, in the first case, you intoxicate your environment on some people when you have never acted sincerely towards them. If you are not interested in them, go on your way without destroying them.
Many dream of a profession that gives them stability and comfort, but these two qualities of a profession can create rigidity if maintained for an unlimited time: lack of empathy, communication, worldly conversations and fast and stereotypical social judgments.
This same comfort goes beyond personal relationships: it may still have some stability in their relationships, but that doesn’t mean it will enrich them. People trapped in a perennial product end up being insensitive to the daily lives of others. We will not abuse the banal concept of “comfort zone”, but we know that quality of life is not synonymous with conformism.
When a person seeks only opinions that confirm their stance without even considering the other side of reality, they end up consumed in their reductionist version of the world and how it works.
The establishment of extremism is not just a characteristic of insecurity or a definite lack of identity: it is also the prelude to a rampant negativity, censoring everything that does not suit it. Is this the basic operating mechanism of repressive people with a lack of individual and collective awareness in favor of the environment in which they live? It is self-determination through the moral, social or economic annulment of others.
Human beings are social beings, and when they seek to protect themselves from the rest of the world, they remove their own protective blanket. The fact that some social relationships have not generated positive aspects does not mean that you should separate yourself from your entire social network: you can meet people in new contexts, maintaining relationships that remain meaningful.
The secret to social well-being lies in anchoring and adjusting: anchoring meaningful relationships and adjusting your trajectory to new social circles linked to your values and goals. Harmony is always a source of happiness.
An excessive ego has several obvious consequences: lack of self-criticism, rigidity in intimate relationships, and seeking recognition before improving one’s abilities.
The obvious result is negativity based on self-ignorance and suspicion about the behavior of others, if this is not valued as sufficient reinforcement. For many people, this is not a cause for negativity, as they disproportionately appreciate the work they do and expect. an external appreciation that matches theirs.
Many people hide deficiencies looking for excuses in family situations: lack of punctuality, informality and lack of empathy are explained by a difficult family situation that is not always true and which, if it is. ‘was, it would be no reason to justify any behavior.
No one disputes the fact that we all experience adverse circumstances in childhood, but we must take responsibility for our actions and take the opportunity to correct certain behaviors that we call bad.
Negative people often persist in unattainable goals based on their circumstances and rule out more realistic and accessible goals that can implicitly serve as a bridge to achieving greater goals.
This often shows the need to be justified by the inability to achieve very difficult goals, which validates their situation in the eyes of others and safeguards their conception of themselves.
So a person who has little free time, who has a full day of compulsory activities that he doesn’t like, will be a person prone to being accused of negativity. That is why it is so important that our program is structured so that our program gives us space to breathe and regain strength.