All couples experience fights and clashes from time to time, which is quite normal and makes them live together, these discussions do not compromise the relationship when faced intelligently and with good communication, in fact these conflicts can bring the couple even closer, strengthening it The key here is how to handle the conflict and decide the best way to resolve it.
Couples who have not defined how they will deal with problems or discussions tend to fight, run away and cling to the resentments that arise from what they have said or done, even for years. This type of partner usually fights and remains irritated for long periods of time. This causes the relationship to cool down, lose confidence and stop being a couple to become two people who simply share the house where they live.
- On the other hand.
- Smart couples have developed the ability to find problems and solve them in between and let them go like wounds forever.
- These couples try to take care of their relationship with each other.
- Rather than finding exact details.
- That emotionally intelligent couples face intimate problems based on common interest in finding solutions.
What a smart couple does to maintain stability
1. Talk about problems that arise when they arise, without hurting or adopting negative attitudes towards each other (guilty, threats, recriminations, etc. ) 2. Once problems are resolved, set rules to prevent recurrence and withhold resentment. 3. Negotiate problems between the couple, not including anyone but an expert. 4. First, regardless of the type, reason or extent of the problem, they are respected and remember that they are loved.
Let us be realistic, there are no couples without differences, what exists are intelligent couples, who have developed the ability to improve their relationships and communication, these couples know that they must listen to the ideas of both parties, dialogue without assaulting the other and learn the mistakes to maintain the love that feeds them with happiness. It is the couples who, when they reach old age, are seen with envy and admiration for the love they have and for the solidity of their relationship.