Without realizing it, we may be immersed in relationships with manipulative people, who change the way we think or act, for their own good.
Are there different categories within the handlers, depending on the control the person exerts over us?If this pressure is too great, experts call it “perverse narcissist,” and we’ll talk about that in this article.
- I’m sure you’ve seen several movies.
- Read books or heard stories of people manipulating their partners.
- Children.
- Friends.
- Etc.
- This type of personality exists in all families and we are not always aware of the situation.
- Victims of manipulative people right now and I don’t know.
Evil narcissists, as some psychologists call this profile, are the ones who constantly tell the other what to do, subtle (or not), but with an efficiency that is very scary, because it restricts your freedom.
These people, in turn, may have other types of negative behaviors, such as emotional excesses of all kinds, aggressive and threatening behaviors, disrespect and continued contempt.
When we talk about a pervert, it is so 24 hours a day, without distinction, the relationship with his victim has been determined in this way and nothing can change it unless the person being manipulated begins to want to change the relationship. .
Especially in romantic relationships with a manipulative person, it can be a long time before the victim realizes what is going on, does not want to hear what their loved ones say, believes that everyone is wrong, the other does it because he loves. him, can make his own decisions, he’s not afraid of his partner, etc.
At some point, it is not yet clear why the person suffering under the control of the manipulator wakes up from this “deep sleep”.
Imagine, for a moment, what the spider does with its prey: it surrounds it with its web, until it finally feeds on it. Something similar happens with the manipulators and the positive energy of their ‘prey’.
In addition to saying that a manipulator’s victim has flaws or problems, it should be noted that the narcissistic villain also needs help.
Although we all complement each other in relationships, the person who has to lose the most is the manipulator, not the manipulator. So it is, because it is? Consume something that the victim possesses, such as his intellectual capacity, kindness, charisma, solidarity, self-esteem, friendships, work, health, etc.
We always talk about the characteristics of manipulators and how to realize that someone is controlling us, but we never try to judge why that person reacts that way, what they need, and how they ask for help. With this, we do not say that he is neither responsible nor guilty of his actions, however, we must analyze what traumas or problems of the past have led him to act in this way, or what his deepest needs are.
When a narcissistic pervert encounters someone who is easy to control, that is where he can put into practice or release all his traumas, without wanting to offend anyone, a manipulator acts when the victim allows it, this does not always happen on purpose in the part of the manipulated person, and even in some cases the victim does not notice it either.
The pervert envies what the other has, so he uses his tools to seize it, the victim cannot see the maneuvers that are made against him, he is blind with passion, he does not perceive the actions of the other as something negative.
But it can influence your mind and emotions. The same goes for a drop that falls on a stone; over time, he ends up loading the stone.
When a manipulator meets a confident person, who knows what he likes, he has his own opinions on certain things, and even something bad has happened to him with a narcissistic villain, he has weapons at his disposal to prevent people from doing so. . The cobwebs envelop you.
But look, no one is 100% immune to this type of personality, as some know how to do a job perfectly and almost imperceptibly, until the other becomes a puppet.
Be very careful with the people you’re in contact with, it’s not about feeling threatened or persecuted all the time, it’s about walking safely.
Also, feel free to do some introspection to determine, objectively, if you can have an easily manipulated personality.