Fear is a natural feeling that warns us of the presence of a danger or that appears when we face the unknown, the problem is that many times this natural feeling overflows and takes over our lives, which can make you an insecure person, practically nullifies us and paralyzes us.
Ideally, you can learn to recognize the validity of fears and prevent fear from dominating your life. No one is immune to its destructive power, but it is possible to detect it and mitigate the negative impact of its presence. You have to do it in time, before it’s too late.
- A society like ours requires us to be vigilant at all times.
- The ideal of success is always raised and we must achieve it; otherwise.
- We will be failed people and we will not be able to be part of the glorious group of people who reach wherever they want.
“For those who are afraid, it’s all noise. ” ? Sophocles
In these circumstances, fear of failure doesn’t even allow you to take a step. This blocks you to the point where you don’t even dare try. And when you hear phrases like “success is for those who take a lot,” you suffer a lot, because fear conditions your life and prevents you from taking risks, and it is at this moment that we forget the capabilities we have to achieve our goals.
You try to do things to be recognized and noticed, and the fear of rejection pushes you back several times, until you lower your self-esteem to a lower level, social approval is like a ghost chasing you, a nightmare that visits you. every night.
It’s like nothing’s in your favor. You are convinced that you were not born with a good star and that you seem destined to suffer to death, you feel that others point at you, question you, criticize you and even turn away from you. you also can’t build real relationships of trust. You don’t realize it’s you chasing others.
You keep comparing yourself on social media. You don’t understand how happy people can be and you don’t, they always smile in the photos, they read their status, they talk about countless successes and accomplishments, how wonderful their life is, you never wonder if everything you see is real.
Comparing ourselves to others makes us lose focus on our own challenges. As human beings we have the same possibilities and, although each of us is a private universe, we live in community and ideally accept ourselves exactly as we are.
The comfort zone is a state of mind that prevents us from looking further, that is, we get so used to what we do and what we have, that we end up being afraid of losing what we have already achieved. an opportunity; conversely? for someone who is afraid, it is equivalent to leaving a state of well-being, but in the long run, it is this so-called well-being that limits us.
You may not be satisfied with your work, but you hear that unemployment only increases and that you can’t afford to drift, even if you don’t get paid well, as you want, if you feel exploited and, besides, you don’t stand a chance. to grow, at least you still have the illusion of stability. You don’t even realize you see things like that because fear dominates your life.
The necessary decision-making is out indefinitely and you dedicate yourself to your routine for fear of uncertainty, you reject the possibilities of changes that could certainly benefit you, simply because they will take you out of your comfort zone. opportunity to improve. Absolute resistance to change is a sign that fear dominates your life.
They said that dreaming is an act reserved for idealists, many people say that giving up dreams and hopes is an act of maturity, in fact this philosophy of conformism is only promoted by people who are afraid of failure, do not realize that perhaps one of the greatest failures is that they are not trying to live better , just out of fear.