The subject of this article may seem naive to you, who doesn’t know if your partner loves you or not?Well, sometimes people make mistakes and there are some mistakes that hurt more than others. We all know that. There are many men and women who have spent much of their time (and life) with a boyfriend or girlfriend who never really loved them the way they really deserved. Or as they expected. They may have been betrayed, or simply their respective partners never really believed in their engagement.
It’s usually this kind of failure that hurts the most. This hurts and emotionally destroys those who suffer from it. Because the person has invested time, effort, dreams; Why did you even give up on aspects that were very important at one point?All for someone who may never have dared to say that he loved us or just didn’t want to commit and give the relationship a future. It is essential that we know how to identify the signs to follow, dimensions that you sure already know, but that you should always be aware of.
- It’s not just about asking “sleep well.
- ” “what time you get back from work.
- ” “what time we meet.
- “Someone’s interest is evident in the look.
- Gestures and small details.
- Notice that something worries us.
- When we go home and ask the reason for this concern.
- It’s interesting to know what we think of certain things and what we think of them.
- Interest in yesterday.
- Today and tomorrow.
- Knowing these details of childhood.
- The insignificant paths of the present and the interest in what we think of the future.
- We will know that we are important to a person when their need to know and their concern are sincere.
- And we notice in their and nonverbal language a kind of empathy and.
- Above all.
- Sincerity.
- Interest is observed.
- Felt and felt.
Commitment is the need to maintain and mature feelings and relationships, this is a concern of tomorrow where the two individuals must remain united in a common project, we can maintain a sincere and enriching relationship, but if the other person does not show the prospect of wanting something else, of maturing such a project on a common horizon, surely differences will begin to appear , especially the difference in needs.
One will suffice this weekend, while the other will feel the emptiness at the thought of forming a house, a family or not. You have to be careful with the false promises, those that put bandages in the present with castles in the air that gradually collapse. We must be intuitive and pay attention to these details, to the plans that are not made, to the excuses with which most criticism is made.
What could be more basic and simple?Share time, space, moments, opportunities, noise and silence? Where there are no last-minute excuses that ruin a date, that make you spend more time away from home than you can justify?The time you live as a couple should be pleno. de complicity and pleasure, simply because they are together. Obviously we don’t need to be hooked 24 hours a day, any of that?but to really know if we are important to someone, we must note this need to find moments to be with us and, above all, that timeshare is of quality.
What is communication with your partner like?Do you remember his words, ideas and comments? It is essential to take into account these dialogues, noticing the interest and look in which we are reflected, is from there that our words may have the power to hurt or offer happiness. What we should never achieve is indifference, that fog where feelings collapse and our phrases no longer have the effect of the past to produce emotions in the other person, if that is the case, it is time to make some decisions, remember to protect your Self-Esteem and avoid maintaining a situation that, far from giving us hope, can produce even more pain?
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