We always try to be happy. Achieving happiness seems to be the goal of our existence, yet do we often forget something?
An easy way to be happy that we all have at hand: to make others happy. Do you think for a moment? It’s not that simple, is it?
How do you make someone happy?
The first step before trying to make someone happy is to investigate your own happiness. Are you happy? If so, you’re on the right track, but if you don’t, you’re going to have to change a few things.
There are certain barriers that we create ourselves, we could break them down, but we don’t want and hold on to them like a wall that defends us from others and prevents us from being around.
? Rencor: Spite causes unhappiness. Keeping someone spite without forgiving, despite the weather, makes people miserable and bitter.
? To be positive: to be positive does not mean to be happy when the situation demands otherwise, to be positive is to be able to see the good, to draw a lesson and to evolve as a person in the face of everything that happens to you, good or bad.
? Seeing things from a different perspective: it’s important to think, to see both sides (good and evil) of everything that happens to us, but we often worry about problems that don’t deserve this concern and that literally become a puzzle, literally, totally. Let’s face it with more philosophy and more relaxation.
There are 8 steps we can take to make someone happy, whether it’s a family member, a friend or even a stranger.
How many times have you helped someone in need? For example, covering a stranger with your umbrella on a rainy day. How did you feel? Not happy? For the person too, in addition to being extremely grateful. And in fact, you didn’t do great things, it was just a generous little gesture, but you will surely remember it.
Hospitality is usually a commitment, and if we’re not very happy we’ll probably do it apathetically, so it’s best not to say hello. It is necessary to greet with your best smile, enjoying the pleasure that makes us recognize the other person and give him a sincere greeting.
It’s also comforting to say hello to a stranger. In the big cities and even in the media this has already been lost, but in small towns, with few inhabitants, there is still a habit of greeting the people we meet, even without knowing them, out of respect.
Hugging or hugging is a very rewarding feeling, hugs make us feel better and yet we don’t give as much as we should.
Helping doesn’t involve donating large sums of money, participating in an NGO, or traveling the world to help those who need it most, there’s other help, like helping an older person cross the street, planting a tree, not throwing trash. on the floor or pushing a stranger’s car. It also helps.
There are several possibilities to offer your help in your daily life. The problem is that we neither see nor want to see. We think that to help we have to do great things, but that is not true. A small gesture is worth it and can make others happy.
Thank you for everything, when they give you space, if they let you pass a door first, if they stop you to cross the street, congratulate?It’s never too much to thank for the little gestures or words that people dedicate to you in your day-to-day life. In fact, you have to be grateful for a person’s company, this will make you a loving person, make you a better person and bring you happiness.
We all need to be heard at some point, so we must also know how to listen, try to understand the person, know how to put themselves in place, advise him if necessary, all this will make you feel useful for that person.
You have to really listen, without judgment, to be honest. You can make that person happy simply by being there, by your side, listening and truly supporting them.
You don’t need to need something or have a reason to call someone and ask them how they are, nowadays it’s much easier to communicate with others, why not use it to make them happy?
A simple phone call to ask about the other person’s condition, just to greet them and find out if everything is okay, will increase your happiness.
There’s no need to wait for a special day, when you see something that reminds you of that person, something they’ll like, that will remind you of him, give him a gift!She will thank you, feel important to you and very happy A simple gift without any special interest.
If you have something or can share it with others, do it! There is no more satisfying feeling than sharing something with someone who simply needs it.