The strategies people use to convince a potential partner can be as original as our imagination, but how does sexual attraction happen?What determines that it occurs immediately ? are there patterns of physical traits that guarantee success at the time of seduction?
The ability to sexually attract or generate erotic interest in others is a skill, but you don’t need to have an angel face or spectacular eyes to achieve it, there are other elements and factors that are evaluated equally or more to explain how sexual attraction occurs.
- As much as we repeatedly boast that “what matters is the interior”.
- The eyes cannot escape the physical aspect.
- First impression always counts.
- Let us think that once the first impression has been formed.
- The person will tend to confirm this impression.
- Something that may be in our favor if this first impression is good.
- But very against it if it is bad.
Appearance is processed in the brain instantly, even before we know it. So, in less than 2 seconds, we’ve already made a quick judgment about the person in front of us. Your dress, your appearance, your nose? Everything is catalogued and classified, without saying anything she has already told us a lot, or rather, we have already interpreted a lot.
In fact, when it comes to the face, it only takes a tenth of a second to determine how attractive it is to us, with that there is love at first sight. At least, physical love.
Hair is one of the attributes that we value most, in particular, women move between the two ends, on the one hand, according to the surveys, it seems that bright and bulky hair attracts them, on the other hand, baldness is not so much. misseen as you can infer from some comments.
In fact, hair loss is directly related to high levels of testosterone in the blood; in fact, many studies consider this hormone to be responsible for the attractiveness found in others.
Smell is the second deciding factor. Unless we are fetishists, an unpleasant smell produces anything but the desire to mate with the other, in any case it is best not to take risks and opt for perfumes or deodorants with fresh and pleasant aromas.
Are there people who, although not beautiful in the eyes of most, have something?That makes them irresistible, is that one? I don’t know what, that works like a magnet: the way you talk, your look, your laughter, your mood, is it interesting?
On the other hand, there are a few days a month when women are more attractive to men: those in which their ovulation period lasts.
At that moment they realize and are attracted by a set of sweet and pleasant aromas that the woman gives off, pheromones, for example, attract them and increase testosterone in their blood to more than 100% in just a few minutes.
Beauty is in the viewer’s eye
Unconsciously, men and women tend to be attracted to symmetrical faces, in fact, this anthropometric characteristic is considered the greatest representative of beauty, the color of the eyes is not so decisive, but the intensity of the limbic edge, the circle that exists around. the iris, the darker it is, the more attractive we find it.
Good stature and well-formed muscles also provide a more attractive point. If we go back to the early stages of human evolution, we see how the strength of Homo sapiens was the key to the survival of the whole family.
And that legacy has continued relatively to this day. Currently, heavier and taller men give women a greater sense of security and protection, this explanation is part of the evolutionary theory that explains the variables that make us more attractive.
We know that some of the elements that most physically attract us to other people are also appreciated by some animal species, for example, lionesses are also attached to the male’s fur, specifically in their quantity, density and color, the most intense and black is more indicative is the presence of high testosterone levels and they like it more.
Females with red partridges prefer males with more intense colors. These nuances are synonymous with a parasite-free immune system and good diet. On the other hand, the horns, teeth or crests possessed by males transmit protection to females and “symbolize”.
The signs of youth are not valued much more than their opposites. At least not as much as you want us to create in some media and marketing, creams, tricks, treatments . . . The fight against age and the passage of time.
A study by the Autonomous University of Madrid rejects this propaganda effect, its findings point out that men are more sexually attracted to facial features that distinguish a female face from a male face than those that show youth.
That is, they appreciate, for example, the absence of facial hair, thicker lips or less full eyebrows, than the fact that there is no scar or mark.
Passion is closely linked to sexual attraction. But other factors influence, such as the circumstances and time each one encounters, their receptivity, their affinities, their desires, their values or shared interests, it all counts.
Therefore, sexual attraction is physical and chemical. Certainly, as we can see, chemicals (substances and hormones) contribute to their appearance, but without a good first impression there is much to rebuild, there is no doubt that sexual tastes and preferences vary from person to person. of good impressions that generate pleasurable sensations in each of our senses will help trigger this sexual appeal.