How many friends do you have on social media?How many of them do you have the address and phone number?How many of them can you call and ask out?How many of them can you call just to chat?How many of them can you vent to, how many of them are willing to listen to you?How many of them are you willing to listen to?How many would accept a visit to your home?How many of them can you say everything about? Think calmly.
When he started the wave of social media he had 5000 friends and many followers, although he had another profile just for work, he accepted everyone because he thought it was a professional obligation, no, it’s not. Until recently, I thought I had a lot of friends, but since I started my life again, I noticed that this number was getting smaller and smaller.
- There are friends who are partying.
- Friends chatting.
- Virtual friends and important friends: real friends.
- I call friends who answer most of the questions I asked before: I can talk about everything and listen to everything they want to tell me.
- They can call me at any time.
- They can come to my house freely.
- They share my joy and sadness.
- Do you know how to keep secrets or explosions without judging?.
Since then, this process has begun even before therapy, have I started taking people out of the networks?And life. From the net, all the people who have never seen me in my life or who have seen me and don’t even know who I am are gone, they just want numbers, they’re speculators, liars, world judges, gossip, victims, energy. , usurpers leaving? All those who, in a way, have nothing good to add.
I stopped going to many places, I had a wonderful selective memory (I just remember what really matters), I stopped worrying about what they said about me, I learned to say NO and I started telling the truth, to tell the naked truth.
Only they have the sensitivity to know, “Oh my God, if she tells me that, I’ll think about it, and if she’s right, I’ll bring her into my life. “
And I started to hear the truth from these friends too. It did me a lot of good and helped change my life. Literally! But I had been preparing for it for years, I used to be a terrible listener and I thought friendship accepted everyone from each other. Offenses, they always say yes, leave it all? He’s not a friend, he’s a workahoo.
Then, when I disintegrate the workahoote and began to understand the essence of a friendship, all the fools left and I felt rejuvenated and I started to really flourish, because a true friend wants you to grow up inside and out, he wants you to know the truth of life, he wants you to be good and he encourages you, he supports you. A true friend is not a judge, he is a counselor and a supporter.
Osho’s words: “Age, every animal is capable. Development is a prerogative of human beings. Only a few claim this, right? Développez-vous. Si right hand did, the left doesn’t need to know. Be selective: adhere to what is right. Read, travel, learn, enjoy life and don’t let them enjoy you. Don’t let him suck your energy. Be light wherever you go. He’s abandoning the war. Fight alone for what’s really worth it. feel immense happiness and see that you will gain a new life, much happier and healthier.
namaste