“He really is a man of his word.
You hardly hear anyone talk about it today, do you?The truth is, talking men and women are pretty weird. Have you ever thought about what you’re saying?
- Many people say that to survive in this competitive world it is necessary to lie.
- Tell half truths.
- Break pacts and keep people waiting.
- They don’t really care to keep their word.
- Because since they have invented excuses.
- They all end up being beautiful in the image.
- However.
- Those who do this have a limited way of thinking.
- In the long run these habits make these people have a reputation for irresponsible.
- Insensitive and complicated.
- That won’t help you in any area of your life.
- Whether professional.
- Family or social.
Nothing gives more dignity to a person than honesty
A large percentage of unfulfilled promises come from situations where you feel compelled to say “yes. “The first step to being honest is to learn to say “no. “So what? You might be ashamed to say “I don’t understand,” “I don’t know much about it,” “Don’t I think I can finish the job on time?
However, even if that’s not exactly what you want to hear from your boss, client or partner, will you certainly be happier than if you just said it?Yes, of course? What has been said. Many individuals or companies are willing to offer training or a longer period to complete a project, simply because they know they are working with a trusted person. They may not hire you for that job or event, but in the future, when they need a reliable person, they’ll look for you. However, to be honest in this regard, it is necessary to have two other virtues that are also quite rare: humility and modesty.
No one knows everything, so why do we sometimes feel compelled to speak with authority on a certain subject when the truth is that our knowledge is limited?, we are even ashamed to ask certain questions and ask for help. Lack of self-esteem can be a problem. At the heart of this attitude. If we’re not sure how people look at us, we’re more likely to be pressured to exaggerate our skills.
However, stop thinking, don’t you have many other skills and abilities?Does that mean you’re actually worth less, just because you don’t know anything about a particular area?Of course not!
Remember also that if you do not express your doubts you will never learn, if you make it clear that this is the first time you have done such a project, then the people around you will have realistic expectations. thinking, “I wasn’t an expert,” you’ll think, “It’s not bad for the first time. “
Modesty is when you are aware of your limitations, a mature person knows what is able to achieve and how long it will take, each person works at a different pace and has different amounts of energy, so if you don’t meet your commitments often, it’s a sign that they don’t know each other well enough.
For example, a modest person doesn’t say they’ll be here in half an hour when they have to finish a job, answer two emails, and cross town at rush hour, to avoid it, think for a moment before answering anything.
So, before promising your cousin that he’ll help you move out on Saturday, think about what week you’re scheduled for and whether, realistically, you can be there at 6 a. m. , or after lunch, or if, unfortunately. , you will not be able to help yourself this time. If you’re not sure, don’t feel pressured to respond right away. You can say something like, “I’ll call you friday as soon as I know if I’m free. “
The truth is that so-called “pious lies,” exaggerations, and unfulfilled promises undermine your integrity. On the other hand, humility and modesty will help you be an integral person in all areas of your life.