There is a difference between being communicative and having frequent verbose attacks, there is nothing wrong with what some people like to talk about, but the truth is that sometimes they go too far, they talk so much that if they sew their mouths the letters come out of their ears, they cannot shut up, so much so that they end up talking on television even if they do not find interlocutors.
This is very challenging for others. They even try to talk, but they finally give up in no time, there’s no stopping them. Do they usually choose their victims? That’s exactly what I’m usually quiet and caring people who wouldn’t dare ask them to shut up or leave them alone in the midst of a vertebrate attack, then suffer selflessly.
- Another point that defines these lovers of verborée is the topic of conversations.
- Because they almost always have a defined center: themselves.
- The people around you must endure a detailed exposition of your opinions.
- Experiences.
- Observations.
- Plans.
- Memories and everything.
- Absolutely.
- Everything that revolves around you.
- This.
- In the end.
- Leaves everyone exhausted.
- So why can’t these people keep quiet?.
“You can’t talk who can’t keep quiet. “- Pythagoras of Samos-
Verboreal attacks are very common in people who have another inseparable feature: they know everything and more, at least that’s what they think. There is no issue they have not yet been involved with, nor an area in which they have no opinion to share, everything that has happened in the world has already happened to them or will happen to them.
Although they have no formal knowledge of a topic and have not read much, they have no problem giving a lecture on the subject, when they know the subject and have a related title, the topic gets worse, they are like a walking seminar, which gives speeches and offers a minimum of data that no one has asked for, can become a nightmare.
These types of people like unusual words and flowery speeches; in a way, they feel that the whole world is a great audience waiting for what they are going to share; they think they have nothing to learn from others. Rather, the intention behind it is to teach, they basically want to be the center of attention and show themselves.
Verborea is also an evil of those who do not try to project an image of sects. There are also those who do not want to teach on any kind of subject, but who need to inform others about their whole lives and the lives of others. They give disproportionate importance to every everyday fact and tell it by detailing the smallest aspects, as if it were of transcendental importance.
There are also those who assume that all the time we ask them for advice or advice, the other person has just finished commenting on one aspect of their life and immediately hears observations, diagnoses and assumptions about what is going on in their life. what they should do, the causes, the consequences and more. The same goes for those who decide to complain all the time.
The problem is that once you fall into your word network inertia will force you to stay there, the other option is to go through the unpleasant situation of asking them to shut up, it is unlikely that these people will choose moments to hear in their own.
A person who makes verbiage his style of communication with others may suffer from a psychological disorder or simply unlimited egocentricity. It cannot be classified as a disorder in itself, but it is not a sign of mental health either.
There are states of mania, anxiety or agitation that lead to talk, talk and talk, tireless speech is a way of expressing this anguish, its agitation prevents them from remaining silent and/or listening, their speech is compulsive and often messy. They can move from one topic to another without a connection; In such cases, listening to them can help. Perhaps accompanying the commentary speech can be an attitude that helps them calm down.
In the case of self-centered people, the most common thing, what happens is that the person has not developed the psychological tools to establish two-way communication, they are interested in making monologues, and the others are deposits for these people. . In such cases, it is ideal not to be part of this narcissistic game.