We have all heard of ‘good envy’, yet it is a feeling full of bitterness and bad desires. What happens many times is to mitigate the effect that the word has?Fantasy, did we say “good desire” so as not to be taken as a negative feeling towards someone. But is there really this “good wish”?Or is it just a lie that’s supposed to sound in front of others?
Envy can have many origins, but what most influences this negative feeling towards others is the person himself and his way of seeing life, usually this emotion is produced by personal frustrations, low self-esteem or difficulty in achieving goals expected vitals. It arises when the people around us have somewhat better living conditions, and this situation is not well accepted, insecurity is another factor that makes this resentment possible.
- The desire to achieve what others have or to have a life similar to others is a very clear example of the insecurity and selfishness of the person.
- We can usually observe this deeply negative feeling in our family environment or among friends; we live with people who cannot rejoice in the good times of others.
Envy is a negative feeling, made up of other emotional states such as resentment, greed, hatred, frustration, can never be classified as a positive or healthy feeling. Good envy? It’s just a mask that hides the true face of envy.
Envious people constantly suffer from great frustration that can lead to depression. Envy is associated with low self-esteem, fear, insecurity and depression. So, talk about it? Can good envy be seen, above all, as a means of softening discourse?That is, to hide people’s negative feelings toward others.