Sometimes people come and go. Coexistence is never easy, differences soon arise and affection decreases, mistrust appears and loneliness ends up occupying a very large space between two people who, although they share the same bed, have an ocean away between them Why does this happen?Is it really so difficult to find a person who integrates into our personal and existential machinery, a master of life, through moments of happiness and difficulty?Definitely! It’s possible.
Sometimes we get carried away by passion, without objectively seeing the person in front of us, we have blindfolded, so it is difficult to objectively analyze other aspects, other dimensions that, in essence, would bring us closer to the perfect person. Want to know what the most basic secrets are?
- It is obvious that.
- Most of the time.
- We get carried away by the physical aspect of the person.
- Because the visual is an excellent business card and it is common to attract so much attention.
- But we have to be careful.
- Because every day Life and living it together will also need other fundamental pillars with which to enjoy every moment of the routine of the couple : understanding.
- Attention.
- Affection.
- Kindness.
- Sense of humor.
- Listening ability.
- Empathy.
- Don’t be discouraged by looks.
Maintaining a relationship with an immature and insecure person makes it very difficult to walk the relationship, insecurity is eventually projected towards the other. If I don’t value myself, if I haven’t developed my skills, to be able and confident, it will certainly affect the other person in the relationship, self-esteem is very important for the relationship to stay healthy. many times they will be present and eventually one will distrust the other, they are undoubtedly aspects that we must take into account, when we think of someone who can accompany us in the day to day, and in all the years that we can come to live, in good and bad, it is always better to find a person who is safe, courageous and with good self-esteem.
If daily life is also used to learn new things, will personal and couple enrichment be even greater, as learning allows us to survive and opens new doors?Creative people not only make life easier, but also more stimulating.
We all know the importance of having a good sense of humor, knowing how to smile and relativize situations from a positive and cheerful perspective, life is certainly full of complex moments, situations in which we have to have support in the relationship, moments when communication, especially knowing how to listen, is decisive, having the help and support of someone we trust and with whom we can open ourselves naturally is fundamental to our balance and development as a couple. People who are able to feel and express feelings, to speak. What hurts them and what makes them happy, what worries them?Without a doubt, it is men and women who are worth finding as a couple.
When we talk about inner life?A small, separate world in which we can find our space. Personal differences must be respected in a relationship and can grow individually, so we should not deny the relevance of sharing similar desires and passions with our partner. It is to be in a relationship above all an act of friendship, to be part of a team, to enjoy life and to grow together, having the same values as Reinforce commitment ?, of course, to know how to respect participation?Personal? That everyone has.
Finding a partner for life requires above all the possibility of joint growth, belief, harmony and happiness, this person has to make us better people, neither worse nor less, so tolerance is fundamental. You have to be able to accept faults, failures and mistakes, be with people with who can be dialogued at any time, and with those who are not afraid or distrustful, tolerance must be mutual. Friends and loves with enough courage to build a life in common, giving strength to the roots that are part of the relational tree, that no windstorm is able to cut, even over time.