No parent wants to have a “bad” child, that’s for sure. However, things don’t always work out. They say that hell is full of good intentions, and this can often be applied to the question of creation. Mother and father always do what they think is best, but just thinking it’s best doesn’t mean it is.
It is not easy to educate a child in the midst of a society with great influence and perverse temptations, there are tons of information about it, but often people face conflicting or elaborate messages for families that exist only in the imagination of those who real-life parents make mistakes, get tired, get excited and contradict their textbooks.
“Parents are the bones with which children sharpen their teeth. “Peter Ustinov.
The thing is that at some point children grow up, and while that happens, you can’t help but think that many things fail, sometimes very aggressive, sometimes exclusively impetuous. They don’t obey, and we don’t have the tools to get them to do it. In short, we realized that despite everything we were doing, we ended up with a “naughty” child.
However, not everything is lost. It is always possible to return to the course, but depending on the age this mission can be more complicated. Here are some tips for correcting errors that may have occurred during creation.
It is always a good idea to make sure that first there is a problem with creation, not all children have the same temperament, some have a stronger personality and this has nothing to do with the education they received, but with a natural inclination for strong attitudes. Naughty? It is a set of traits:
The more the child describes the characteristics, the more likely we are to face a “bad” child. Without a doubt, parents have tried to educate him to be responsible and to have more strategies of self-control, but something has failed. and now the child can convey the feeling of being “uncontrollable. “
Children don’t miser because they do, and in most, if not almost all, parents have a lot to do with how they act, obviously, rude is what translates into an evil child. is the reason the child is not behaving properly. This is common for one of the following reasons:
The first thing, then, is to try to identify where the source of the problem is, that is, to see the aspect of creation that has failed, in addition, to be watched with love and patience as they will be necessary in the mission of reversing the situation.
It will also require a deep exercise in sincerity. Parents should be willing and able to admit their mistakes, and add the will to correct them. This task should not be delegated to children: it is the result of errors on both sides.
There are three tips that never fail in this process of reversing a bad creation: the first is to impose certain non-negotiable rules, starting with practical aspects, such as schedules, the second is to look for moments of relaxation when communication is fluid. Keep in mind that, for example, the game facilitates communication and helps you understand the meaning of the rules. Finally, listening is infallible: listening carefully and trying to understand your world will strengthen and enrich the relationship.
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