Insecurity in people can have different origins, but one of its root causes is a lack of self-confidence, because a mind that does not feel safe constantly fears the rejection and disapproval of others.
The insecure person tends to isolate himself from his loved ones and feel lonely, which ends up ruining all his relationships and becomes the root of many other problems.
Insecurized people often show the following signs
? They are selfish people who need praise and attention, they like to surround the therself with material goods to feel protected, but they are actually very accommodating people who seek the approval of others to feel safe.
? They are often defensive and do not accept criticism because they see them as an attack on them, making it difficult to have a constructive conversation with an insecure person.
? They are people who can’t shut up and fill you with unnecessary conversations because they feel uncomfortable with your thoughts because they don’t have a very positive view of you.
? They tend to be very playful, they try to make others laugh, but at the same time they become very insensitive to people, making fun of each other and themselves to try to get attention.
? They constantly promote and speak for themselves because they need the validation of others; they don’t listen to others, because they only think about their own problems.
? They are very competitive people, who cannot bear defeat and who absorb very easily people who have authority and who are very authoritarian and, compensate for their lack of confidence by venting their frustrations in their subordinates, especially in very docile people.
? In relationships, unsafe people are jealous and abusive because they lack confidence in their partner, which creates mistrust and constant fights with members of the opposite sex.
To overcome insecurity, consider the following tips
Think positive thoughts, as they will help you overcome all your fears and insecurities. Be critical of yourself and others.
He thinks perfection is impossible. Try to discover their weaknesses and correct them. Also think about your strengths and develop strategies to turn your weaknesses into strengths.
Don’t compare yourself to anyone, because there’s no need to cause jealousy and insecurity, be proud of who you are.
Share your negative feelings with your close friends and loved ones, don’t suppress your feelings, and honestly express your insecurities with people who care about you.
Relax and have fun dealing with the insecure mind as you contemplate the causes of your fears and insecurities and take steps to get rid of them.
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