Most people look for relationships in their lives that fit a need, but if someone offers you half an object, I don’t think it would be very interesting, would it?Why, in this belief that we are incomplete, do we demand that the others correspond to our faults?We want some of the people, but not the objects, why?
When we are complete, we create the conditions to find in the other not a part of the other, but integral people to connect in a healthy way. This is not limited to romantic relationships, but to any type of relationship you may have.
- Frustration in your love life can often be associated with your relationship with your partner.
- When asked about it.
- Is the beginning of reflection on the behaviors that are repeated in your relationship.
- To change attitudes and have different results.
If there is a pattern of failure in your relationships, it may be associated with some limiting beliefs. In this way, your belief guides your behaviors, as we live to confirm. What is the belief that keeps the pattern repeated in your relationships??
Getting away from the situation can help you do things differently, however, remember that the relationship is made by two people with different creations, but who are trying to understand how much it belongs to them in this story. isn’t that how you’d like it to be?
We are not part of each other’s lives to meet a need, an expectation of one ideal or to share the other and fill ourselves with something we lack Have you ever stopped to think that we are turning to each other for something that does not exist??
When we are complete, there is no need to look for something that we assume is the solution to our incomprehensibility, so we can give ourselves naturally without waiting for something in return, because when one relates to the other that is not a part, the relationship flows without having to enter the life of the other forcefully.
This is the case with the exchange of two whole numbers, because it is in the relationship that each person lived the experience.
The relationship ends up not working when we look for something in the other that complements us, either due to lack or hoping that the other has the obligation to equal what we want, because the filling will never be external (the other complements me), being internal complements me). Not in the sense of being self-sufficient, but of personal investment.