Are we going to start by suggesting a little thought?
Perhaps we should start by clarifying the term a little, sometimes we associate human humility with the altruism of these people who are able to give everything and give everything to help others.
- While it is true that we can also include this aspect.
- Humility is actually more than just this kind of action.
- It is an inner good.
- It is an attitude.
- It is a way of thinking and feeling.
Many of us are used to prioritizing the dimensions that modern societies often consider: individualism, attachment to matter, competitiveness and even the “disposable”, that is, consuming and wasting, living fast?
In many of these ideas, there is a touch of subtle selfishness, the other side of the ladder in the hearts of humble people.
Let’s talk about it today, you are invited, as always, to reflect with us.
The humility born of the heart knows no artifice. It is an inner opening that is projected upon others to recognize them, to offer them respect and trust; looks blindfolded, knowing how to appreciate simple things.
Sometimes you get used to seeing these kinds of behaviors mentioned at the beginning of the day, people used to prioritize, cover their needs by transmitting to others, get carried away by the day when they want to live life as quickly as possible. .
In many of these profiles we see what sociologist Zygmunt Bauman calls “liquid relationships”, that is, friendly or loving relationships with which we build fleeting and weak bonds, so much so that they are often in a hurry and without having to say goodbye face to face. Just eliminate friendship?on social media.
In this type of behavior we see a lack of inner knowledge, projection, emotional maturity and why not say it, humility.
Being open and grateful to others is one of the most fundamental values of human beings Do we all need to be recognized as people, do we need them to appreciate our effort, our virtues, our needs?
If the mother and father do not recognize their children, they will not feel safe at every step. Don’t you know what trust and support are?And the bond they develop with their parents will not be safe or complete.
What about romantic relationships?
Having a humble person by our side, able to see their own mistakes, always act sincerely, without selfishness, and know how to recognize those little things that build love in the couple in the day to day, is without a doubt the most valuable. active to what we can. Aspire.
When was the last time you forgaved someone?We know that forgiveness is not a simple thing and that it is not always possible to do so.
How can we forgive those who have done us wrong expressively, and the parents who broke our childhood?Or the partner who let us know what the deepest misfortune is?
The truth is that although it hurts and is difficult, forgiveness is usually an excellent clinical tool in individual and couple therapies.
This is the first step towards emotional liberation, it is the desire to abandon resentment, negative emotions and inner torture.
Forgiveness is liberating and is one of the best acts that symbolize the humility of the heart.
Does any hatred, resentment or annoyance make us captive to pain, so why don’t we free ourselves?Why don’t we forgive?
Is being humble at heart a healthy exercise that is practiced every day and can bring us great benefits, is learning to lead a simple life discovering the value of what is important: love, friendship, happiness in everyday life?recognize and know how to forgive. It is to look at the world with hope and soul softened in harmony
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