We fear loneliness, men and women. However, loneliness is sometimes not only necessary; It’s also curative. To be alone is to be able to think of yourself, what you want, what you dream about and above all what you feel.
Being alone doesn’t mean being sad, it’s taking advantage of this moment, these days, these years, to relax, to enjoy life. Loneliness gives us dignity, protects us from incomplete relationships, that make us sick.
- “Loneliness does not weaken me.
- Strengthens me.
- Fills me with something strange that nourishes me.
- Speaks to me at night.
- Tells me stories.
- Stories that are true.
- That are true.
We cannot let our happiness depend on another person, a couple. If you’re not happy alone, neither is your partner. Loving yourself is essential for someone else to love us. How do you want someone to love you if they don’t?
Loneliness is associated with spiritual development. Characters such as Christ, Buddha, or Muhammad have had crucial revelations in loneliness. We also associate loneliness with creativity, as writers, philosophers and scientists have hailed it as a fundamental element in the generation of new ideas.
Currently, social networks like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, allow you to be permanently connected with other people, but does it seem that the?
There’s a very ingrained idea that a lot of things have to be done in company, but what can happen if you go to the movies alone, if you go alone to your favorite restaurant, if you’re home alone on a Saturday night, if you go to an exhibition alone?The only thing that’s going to happen to you is that you’re going to love it.
We are social animals, it is a fact, but over the years the need to be with other people decreases continuously, with age we have clearer interests and focus on them, without having to demonstrate other things that we do not like. or have so many relationships with others.
We simply achieve a balance in which we will enjoy our solitude and the time we share with others in the same way, solitude can become a companion with whom we can also spend part of our time.
Loneliness can be an opportunity to develop our personal or professional concerns, to dedicate ourselves physically and mentally. We are not talking about a sad loneliness, but a loneliness necessary to reconcile with our minds and minds.
“Loneliness is the opportunity of all excellent minds. “
We often associate loneliness with having no partner, but even in cases where we have a partner and don’t feel good, it’s always good to think deeply about what the relationship is and what we want.
Great raw realism is difficult, but essential to see what we don’t want to see. A relationship in which you feel bad, a relationship in which you are abused is not worth to anyone. Escape as soon as possible.
Say goodbye to what makes you feel bad; Farewell is hard, but it doesn’t kill. For a moment you will think of the good times you shared with that person, but you must not forget reality. Let time caress your wounds, don’t rush to find someone else, enjoy your own company.
There is always a period of mourning after the end of a relationship, which usually lasts between six months and a year, if you want to cry, cry, if you need to walk in the rain, do it, give yourself that time to think and overcome that.
Now you are free, with all that that means Decide, enjoy, do it and let go, walk, run, dream, kiss, hug, look, enjoy life Let loneliness envelop you, let it be a warm coat, let your thoughts fly freely, let your feelings reach your skin.
“I decided to do what I love, because it is good for your health. “