I allow myself to move away from people who treat me with dryness or violence, ignore me, deny me a kiss or a hug. These people are out of my life; I don’t want to be mistreated by anyone, by anyone.
I allow myself not to necessarily be there, the soul of the party, nor the person willing to dialogue to resolve conflicts, while others have not even tried.
- I allow myself not to entertain and amuse others.
- At the expense of my personal effort.
- I allow myself to be who I am.
- Without fear.
- Without condemnation.
- Without labels.
- I don’t have to please anyone; to be by my side.
- You must appreciate me.
I allow myself to abandon all the fears learned in childhood. The world is not just hostility, deception or violence; there’s also a lot of beauty and joy.
I allow myself not to tire of trying to be a good person, I was not born to be a victim of anyone. I am not perfect, no one is perfect and I allow myself to reject the labels of others: a whole man, impeccable, is the same as saying inhumane.
I allow myself not to be anxious while I wait for a call, a kind word or a gesture of consideration. I’m not an adedepta person to anxiety, I don’t wait alone at home. I value myself, I accept myself and I respect myself.
I don’t want to know everything and always be aware of what’s going on in the world, I don’t need a lot of information, computer skills, watching all the blockbuster movies, reading all the newspapers and books and listening to a lot of music.
I give myself permission to be immune to the exaggerated praise of flatterers. I live lightly, without excessive loads or demands. I’m not playing your game.
More importantly, I allow myself to be authentic. I’m not trying to please It’s simple and liberating to learn to say no.
I don’t need to justify myself: I can feel happy, sad, discouraged or in a good mood. There’s not a marked day on the calendar that forces me to be happy. “I am who I am. “
I allow myself to feel good about myself and not in the way social rules are established and the people around me. I set what it is? Or “abnormal” in my emotional state.