Today, being honest is overrated when it should actually be the most normal thing in the world and a brand present in our personal relationships. Don’t you think so? When someone speaks to the truth, he can be seen without distortions, without nuances, without unexpected unhook.
Lies smoke and confuse, but it always surrounds us more than we’d like. Maybe out of fear, maybe for comfort, protection, etc. Whatever the reason, it shows that socially it is impossible to maintain total sincerity.
- “True nobility is to walk all your life with steps that come out of your heart; that your stocks are in line with your ideas.
- Even if the price is high.
- ? -Rosa Montero-.
The poet Antonio Porchia said that when the other and the truth spoke to him, he did not hear the truth, but the other. That is why the nobility of those who are sincere with us is so grateful, and that is why it is also good that we value sincerity with ourselves so much.
We are different by nature and it is fantastic. In fact, your best friend will have a lot in common with you, but they will be very different from you and they still love each other, among the differences will be the ideas you have, a personal way of controlling emotions and an attitude towards the same circumstances.
In this sense, it is good to have at your side a person who knows us and only seeks our well-being when it comes to us, that is, even if we have to share the worst news we have received, we must be discreet and sincere and do not lie to minimize pain.
In the long run, the truth is a valuable tool for connecting and maintaining them. Nobody turns away, is offended or collapses to hear something true, but for a certainty in itself; and there are certainties that take time. The truth is always productive, the lie only works up to a point.
The lie works to some extent, as we have said, for example, think of the times when you lied to yourself: in the end you ended up winning or, on the contrary, the consequences of self-deception awaited you around you. The corner?
You could say that lying is just lying about lying, and even 3-year-olds do, so someone who treats the truth sincerely, who knows how and when to give a complicated message, is someone we’d all like. have by our side.
“Be pleased to lie down that there is nothing left, that you have said it all;
you had the sincerity to recognize the good and criticize the bad
I think sleeping is the best sedative.
-Pablo Milanese-
Lying, in many cases, is a conscious action and is also an easy resource when we do not want to face reality; in fact, lying is a loan shark of another reality that, in the long run, usually end up demanding interests that we cannot bear on the other hand, the lack of sincerity with the truth is so popular with us that when it exists, it becomes a special and appreciated asset.
For all that we have mentioned, having someone sincere by your side is a source of happiness, I personally feel grateful and fortunate to know that I trust the sincerity of the people around me, people who will not stop the deaf noises. I have to pass, but who will definitely help me stop them.
The same thing can happen to you: you know that these people around you will help you when they have to tell you something wrong and that they will give you the opportunity to cope with the pain that can cause you, that is, without asking you to make a decision that is theirs: adapt personally to events.
? If you tell the truth, did the monster whisper in his ear?you can deal with whatever comes.
-Patrick Ness, A monster comes to see me-
If they tell me the truth and that doesn’t mean an attack on their relationship, that person can be sure that we will move forward to overcome the storms: it goes without saying that two forces achieve more than one if they go in the same direction.