In short, I don’t know if I’m a star, a planet or a black hole, but in my emotional path, I demand stars, and the older I get, the faster I can identify those who aren’t. one of the privileges of aging, you’ve seen it all for light years.
There is a love of cinema and there is love for propaganda, the loves of cinema and the loves that reach 20 seconds, the difference is that the former are only experienced once and the seconds, whether we like it or not, will see them again and again, even against their will.
Excerpt from a text by Risto Mejide for Elperiodico. com
Fulfilling is one of the ugliest and saddest words that exist, it is painful because it means that we stop working on the dream side, that we settle for anything, this is an uncomfortable truth that we must assume. Are we afraid of being alone, of being an aunt, to what society will say?
Faced with these dilemmas, it is normal for us to rush to choose at all costs a candidate to help us get a perfect match.
He’s probably had a lot of failed relationships. Do not look for the culprits; It is usually our misconceptions about love that make us fail.
It’s not about waiting for a Hollywood idol to give us a movie kiss, take us for a ride on his convertible and walk the world with a flag-hunched passion. you deserve is the one who wants to make you happy and who is happy with you.
And when you find that person, you’ll realize there’s nothing compared to having someone willing to resolve disputes and conflicts by your side.
Because when we find the right person, we just know. And we know because when he hugs us tight, he recomposes all the spare parts.
Stars are those stars that have their own light and, as they never stop shining, destroy all the darkness in their path. As Risto says, it’s a light that falls in love because it’s free and doesn’t depend on anything or anyone.
Love does not feed on necessity, but on preference, that is, emotional independence is ideal in the couple and that is what we have to achieve, is that preferring is immensely more rewarding and healthy than the need
Our star lights up anywhere and anytime, that’s wherever you are, however, we should keep in mind that our star is consumed just to illuminate and that energy may be lacking if the nearby star doesn’t cooperate, if it doesn’t. it lends its intensity and gives reasons to keep shining.
So perhaps another of our misunderstandings is to think that because love is pure and bright, it will be eternal. The reality is that we must do our part, work, care for and enlighten together.
To be a couple is to form a team. And teamwork does not mean creating dependence, but cooperating with the same enthusiasm for what we see the stars shine every night and that never fail, they are always there in the sky, accompanying us, despite the clouds that hinder their vision. .
We have to stick to the idea that there is no time when we should start a relationship, what we have to do at the time is simply demand that what comes with us be the perfect complement to inform our way.
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