They say that only the things that make us vibrate and that make us tremble or a whirlwind of feelings are the things we will remember forever. You branded me, you were something like a storm, that touched me inside and managed to find me, it was this person who knew I had the happiest moments that no one had ever given me.
Probably, now that time is up, I’m starting to forget, forget who you were, how I was with you and how it felt to be together, in fact the most logical thing is that you end up being an extra life. experience and a path of learning.
- However.
- There will be something that will stay here and that I will always take with me: the heat when it was cold.
- The cold when I needed heat and every touch of yours in my heart.
To think of oneself is to think about time and space: what were we, what are we?That we will be And it seems that in response all we have is memory, memory is first and foremos say a form of forgetfulness.
We are what we remember and remember what shook all parts of the body, even those that are not visible. The rest of the facts that have happened to us or are lost and confused in our minds so sometimes there comes a time when we do not see each other. I don’t know what really happened: we just remember how we felt at the time.
“We are our memory, we are this chimeric museum with moving shapes, this pile of broken mirrors. “
? Jorge Luis Borges
It happens that there is a time when the mistakes that we made one day or that someone made with us disappear, we only have the cold, the scar of what a while ago made us what we are now: this pile of broken mirrors to make and identify to us, and also those small doses of happiness that made us believe that we were alive. Truth.
From what I have already said, it is clear that we cannot definitively disassociate ourselves from the past, so people like you, who were once my gift and are no longer my gift, continue in my life in the form of memories: those that are no longer real or tangible, but who remain in the form of emotion.
Our emotions were worth it and they are worth it for me and for you, who read this, if you managed to turn your belly, you cannot forget the feeling you had right now: you, that person, are not what you used to be. to be, it is only that essence that touched us inside.
You may have been hurt, that is true, just as they hurt me; but everything that hurts is usually caressed before. And the pain and tears pass, but the caress continues, she will always be with you.
Sometimes the heart cries so much that it seems that it will never forget the suffocation in which it finds, yet it is wiser than we think if we get carried away: the heart is able to eliminate bad memories and overcome them, embracing the good ones. and enduring the past.
“That day, I thought some people never leave us, they never leave at all, even if they are no longer there. Their essence remains, their voice is heard, they can be heard smiling. Some people never leave us, are they eternal. ?
? Ilani ribero?
When I say that the heart is able to eliminate, it does not mean that memories do not stay here; it’s just that when the pain stops hurting, we know that we accept it and learn to live with it.
In this way, there will come a time when we will give thanks for falling, because this is the only way we will learn to stand and enjoy more standing.
It is of no use to face an event by reliving over and over again the situations in our heads: the only way to look to the future is to go beyond the sum of events, reach emotions and get to know each other from all angles. perspectives that life makes us face.
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