It is an expression that we all know, in different versions, in a thousand situations, because we have all been madly in love, but when we decide to analyze the situation without mixing our feelings, we can do nothing less than blame ourselves for giving someone the responsibility to make us happy, to have demanded that it bring us happiness, setting aside their own life, this is not a healthy way to live and love , is it our selfishness when we’re in love?And it must be admitted, we are also selfish when we are not only in love. I thought of him thinking of someone who has recently distanced the most from his great love.
Things went from bad to worse, and when separation finally arrives, can you practically say that you both are relieved?But no, the toxic feeling of striving to keep the other by your side always appears in one or both, after all you love. Can’t you get used to someone else? And they strive, sadly and in vain, to give the other the role of savior of his life, of all his existence, closing the doors so that he does not move.
- Of course.
- It’s painful to lose someone you love because they left you.
- Because the relationship no longer worked.
- Because it was impossible.
- Because he died.
- Why this.
- Why this?But it is precisely at this moment that we must assume that we must move forward.
- Cannot we in any way engage in a love that no longer exists.
- In exhausted feelings that no longer bring us happiness?We have to take a deep breath and move on.
I don’t know how to live without you This extraordinary lie and this deceptive wit. How is it possible to think we have someone?No matter how close we are to someone we love, even if we’ve built dreams and realities together, it’s someone else. We can practically say that in life we have no one but ourselves. . Feelings change, people change, distances come, one day we walk away or walk away, we make and break plans, we resume yesterday and one day we leave it behind We change every day!And when the changes come to love, we must assume that, as they began, they may one day end.
And that he or she will continue, or that we, if we want to go further?We choose someone to love by mutual understanding, accept someone, and accept us as we are, because we are happy. working, unless we’re very selfish, we can’t do anything else.
When we choose who to love, we choose him to live our lives with us, share projects, and live a mutual life; We do not choose him to live for us, nor to be responsible for our happiness, but to share happiness together, so that when it is no longer possible, there will be no turning back. Of course, you can live even if you no longer have it, it will be difficult and painful, but you will survive and one day you will see the glow of love again and you will always continue to live, whether or not you have someone by your side.