“Did they make us believe this? Great love only happens once in a lifetime, before the age of thirty. We were not told that love could not be unleashed, nor would it happen at any given time.
They’ve made us believe that each of us is half-orange and that life will only make sense when we find the other half. We were not informed that we were born whole; no one deserves to take responsibility for completing what is missing.
- They made us believe that a formula called “two in one”.
- Two people thinking and acting the same way.
- Was what worked.
- Haven’t we been informed it’s called? And that only people with their own personality can have a healthy relationship.
They led us to believe that marriage is obligatory and that external desires should be suppressed.
They have made us believe that the handsome and the skinny are more loved, that there is only one formula for happiness, and that those who try to escape it are doomed to marginalization.
We have not been informed that these formulas are wrong, that they frustrate people, that they are alienating and that we can, however, look for other alternatives.
Everyone will discover your “moment” on your own. When you’re in love with yourself, you can be happy and fall in love with someone.
“We live in a world where we have to hide to make love, although violence is practiced in broad daylight” (John Lennon).
I don’t need you, I chose you. It’s very hard to say that; we must set aside cowardice, cover ourselves with courage and patience. A lot of patience.
Patience to explain that no one has a responsibility to complete what I miss. I chose you and I love you for who you are.
By that I mean that the only person we need to live is ourselves; and I, with the right to use my emotional freedom, chose you to be by my side and enjoy life.
I decided to leave my emotional past behind and not let others define who I am. I will find a way to express who I am and explore the depths of my being. Then I can be myself.
I promise never to give others the power to make decisions about my life and not let me get caught up in the opinion of ordinary people. Right now, I’m freeing myself from negative thoughts and working to make right decisions and feel good.
Getting rid of the bandages and bandages that cover my wounds will help me create a deep and authentic bond with you. If you do not love me freely, it is better not to love; emotional dependence is destructive.
I don’t know if I’ll love him forever and not with the same intensity, what I do know is that I love him now and he’s always with me.
I have chosen to love you, but I still possess myself, because the strongest love that exists is love for ourselves, because as Perls said:
“I am you and you are you. I’m not in this world to meet your expectations, and you’re not mine either.
I am a complete being, with my needs and my flaws. You’re you. Another being complete with its faults and flaws.
If we meet, if we are able to accept our differences and celebrate life, we can walk side by side with respect, love and camaraderie.
You’re you. I’m me. If we meet at any point in our lives, it will be wonderful.
Self-esteem is lacking when I try to please you, betraying my principles, there is a lack of love for you, when I want you to be with me instead of accepting you as you really are.
You’re you. And I?