How many times have you heard that you must love yourself more?If you love each other, you can love others, that’s what they say. What do you think?
So it feels good to love yourself?Who would choose not to love each other? Today we will give you the answers to all your doubts.
? Love yourself
it’s the beginning
of an eternal love story?
? Oscar Wilde?
You may never have experienced that, but often, in the face of a negative moment or a situation that marks us, we tend to act contrary to the way we should proceed. Why are we taking advantage of what hurts and hurts us?
Just because he’s one? To deal with what hurt us, to, for a while, have control that we didn’t have over it.
In case you choose not to love yourself, it may be because it ends up being easier to let others think of you. You know what causes this?
You have a thousand and one excuses to believe that you should not love yourself: you do not deserve it, it is not important, you are always the problem, etc. These and many other excuses prevent you from loving yourself and prevent others from loving This makes you disappear, increasingly, in a deep misfortune.
At first, we may think that avoiding risks is a positive thing, but on the contrary!Avoiding the risk of romantic or friendly relationships so you don’t have to suffer rejection, pain, it’s not worth it!It’s part of us to take a chance, why, what if everything’s okay?What if you’re happy?
Stagne, avoid moving on so everything doesn’t change. It’s a lot of people‘s fear. Get out of your comfort zone! You feel safe, but you’re not moving forward!We are destined to find something else, progress. If there’s no progress in our lives, won’t it make sense and?Is it possible to live happily ever after?
Besides not loving yourself, you like to be complained, in other words? Sorry. Really, are you doing well in this facet of martyrdom?
Behind all this pain that you find difficult to feel, lies a great frustration and fear. Instead of taking refuge in other people’s words of pity, instead of feeding them, change!There are other ways out, you mustn’t close. You have to move on.
Besides not loving you, you feel bad! It serves as an exhaust valve, but how long can you go on like this?Change, be different, it scares you.
You must start facing your fears in a different way, try not to hide!Don’t look for an escape valve, turn around and face what you’re running away from. It’s time.
Do you become someone who continually complains and complains about everything, but you do nothing to resolve those situations that cause discontent and complaints?It’s ironic, isn’t it?
You go back in time to become that good kid the adults wanted you to be. We make mistakes all the time. You want to be perfect? No need. Instead of maturing, you’ll become more childish. Is that what you mean?
Who will live your life if you’re not yourself?Because he feels he is not worthy to be happy, he is not able to take over his own life. You don’t know how to live your life, how to take care of it. What are you waiting for? Start living now.
As mentioned above, you think others are more important than you and will make your life the lives of others. Aren’t you curious to know what it might be like?
If after reading this article you realize that you don’t like yourself, solve this problem now!There’s not a single advantage to this, it’s just frustrations, sadness and great misery. Your life belongs to you. Live it and enjoy it because there is only one, what will be your choice?