“I remember when I was still twenty. My life and that of my friends revolved around the number of guys who loved me. It was really a pain in the ass.
Was every weekend crazy to think about how to dress, get dressed and dress to feel like I liked it?
- My self-esteem depended on external circumstances.
- Nothing more.
- Everyone considered me a good.
- Intelligent and studious girl.
- But I didn’t see any of that in me.
My appreciation as a person was alone in the number of guys who had looked at me on Saturday night and whether some of them had approached me or not.
If I wasn’t lucky this Saturday, I wouldn’t be jealous of my friends, but did I have a feeling of sadness and lack of confidence that was beyond me?
Now I don’t live to be sexy or to like others anymore?I live to love myself.
I think, in a way, we all feel that at some point. Girls and boys try to be the best-looking at the party.
Although we didn’t realize it at the time, we were in the era of exhibitions and we were all trying to spread our wings like peacocks to win a partner.
“Self-esteem is as important to our well-being as legs at a table. Is this essential for physical and mental health and happiness?
? Louise Hart?
Over the years, I have the feeling that singles between the age of 30 and 40 are entering the same spiral; everyone wants others to love them.
But it’s already different, now self-esteem doesn’t depend on whether they look at me or not, now, at last, I feel confident in myself, for who I am, for what I feel, what I want and, above all, what I don’t want.
Now the others don’t decide at a glance what I’m worth or not worth, now I say it. I don’t care if you look at others; I am who I am
Am I happy with my accomplishments, my mistakes and successes, my virtues, and my flaws?Now I don’t live to be sexy or for others to like me, do I live to love myself?.
This could be the story of many girls and boys who live their adolescence and youth sadly, who are not happy if they do not think they are attractive to others.
It is a very sad fact and it happens very often, the sad thing is that in life young people live only once and you have to live it with joy.
In most cases, over the years, have we gained self-esteem and safety, in others, does this low self-esteem drag and condition our lives, especially when the feeling of loneliness persists?
But do we have to think that times have changed, that being single doesn’t mean worth less or more than anyone else?Besides, we’re not currency.
So, do we really deserve this? It all depends on who’s looking at us, does it all depend on being told something nice on the street or feeling that others love us?
“Did it take me a long time not to judge myself through the eyes of others?Sally Field?