Because I was very small and practically without inner maturity, I was taught what love is, a form of love that had not only been unconditional, but perhaps appeared as a ray of light in me, in my essence.
A different way of sharing, like so many others that over time I realized that they would not be part of my heart because of the pain they caused me, something different and, moreover, protected, that today I invite you to discover so that you know how to make the right decision when it happens to him.
- I grew up.
- Matured.
- Listened and one day.
- Through an emotional relationship full of obstacles.
- I realized that I was experiencing this kind of love.
- It was then that I wrote this statement about what it is not to love someone in a relationship.
- My own perception of the reality that I would humbly share with you today.
The letter is born of my deepest essence: “Hello strange, yes, of course I call you strange because I really do not know who you are, because after so many years we have been able to do this work of inner discovery for each one”. of us, I realize and I feel like you’re a complete stranger. Did I believe with all my might that I knew the man you were, or was he at least what I always wanted?
Today I realize that I fell in love with a perception, an idea that I wanted you to adapt to and that I myself believed was true. Never because of what you were, with all your soul and magic version. I try to understand that the person for whom I have done so many things unconditionally, without asking for anything in return, has only today become someone who keeps an air of loneliness.
These negative emotions seen from temporal proximity became positive, as they allowed me to understand what was going on, learn and move on, complete me and give me this respite to thank you, because what you did inadvertently was more valuable than you wanted.
You’ll wonder, thank you for what? I have allowed you to tear my heart apart, opening my reality to an immense desire to love in the most beautiful and sincere way possible. You remember my past and the motivation not to repeat certain sensations I didn’t know about.
Many of my friends, including you, will reflect on how I can thank you after all you’ve done, I’d love to explain to you that many of the things I saw in you were my own reflection, these actions and emotions that you could bring to life and that you didn’t know if you could sustain, at least in a healthy way.
This can be considered one of the most beautiful gifts that one human being can offer to another. It does what you really want, what your essence is able to do safely and that, through daily blockages, sometimes escapes us like water between our fingers.
I will never tire of thanking you from the bottom of my heart and with true love, for I have learned that I can do my best for someone, but only if I sow the way first. I have learned that it is I who sets the limits of what I deserve to be loved and that, if necessary, I am free to leave it for my own reasons.
Thanks to my lesson that not everyone is acting sincerely, I understand that I can never be sure that someone is telling the truth, my only mission is only to trust and offer in return a love that I will never ask for to be reciprocal. , just to be real.
You have allowed me to learn that love is not selfish, that when someone loves you purely they will accompany you in victories and you will never feel insecure enough to underestimate your achievements or diminish them out of fear. Because everything I’ve experienced and vivido. me you’ve allowed me to grow up and recognize forever the woman I am.
For that, I’m very grateful. I tell you thank you because you have allowed me to find the mantra that will accompany me for the rest of my days . . . in life, sooner or later, everything becomes terribly beautiful and positive. Will he pass and learn a valuable lesson from him?