Virtual networks are full of people who travel, eat in restaurants, party, outdoors, at the local bar. At the same time, few messages are about a book you’re reading, a TV show you’re watching, or anything. what to do, especially if it’s a weekend.
For many, it seems that the lack of leisure options on Friday or Saturday is something to be ashamed of, or a theme of memes and tweets that focus on the subject with irony. It says something like this: “I don’t have the money to leave the house. ” “No one invited me to anything”; Is it just one?Loser, stay home on a Saturday night, and so on. It’s like not wanting to go out on the weekend would be like being a Muggle, being a loser, a point off the curve.
- Yes.
- There are those who prefer accompanied or solo pickup on days off.
- Holidays.
- And update their status with photos of books.
- Series.
- Movies.
- Music.
- Without ever registering in bars.
- Restaurants or international airports.
- But.
- In proportion to clubbers and travellers.
- Their numbers are much smaller.
- Looks like it’s a very small tribe and almost on the brink of extinction.
In fact, ideally, everyone lives their own way, depending on what makes them happy, because that’s what counts, but unfortunately many begin to condemn and ridicule those who adopt lifestyles that don’t correspond to what they consider normal. desirable. When you want to stay home, when you don’t want to travel, when you prefer to be alone, you have to explain yourself because you’re accused of leaning people.
Everyone decides whether being home alone on a Saturday night is loneliness or freedom, because no one has anything to do with each other’s choices, what an irritating attitude of some uncomfortable people with others, with those who are happy in their own way, with those who have not asked for opinion, with those who are happy in their corner. Don’t get in the way if you’re not invited to do it.
Everything would be much simpler, it would be much easier to live, if we respected the options that are not ours, if we do not care what is not ours, if we lived our lives and stopped worrying about the lives of those. who don’t need our opinion. Getting out, getting up early and jumping from club to club can be a delight. Staying at home listening to music, drinking alone or accompanied, whatever, is also a delight. Everyone has their own, as our grandparents used to say.