I want to talk about atoms, death, space, philosophy, politics, sex, travel to Asia, New York or the Moon, I want you to tell me all the lies I’ve told you throughout your life that thinks kissing someone, I want you to talk with emotion.
I don’t want you to criticize me, tell me what to do, judge me or blame me, don’t try to manipulate me or pretend to interest me and disappear without saying anything, I don’t want people like that in my life.
- Many people go through our lives at different times.
- Some stay and others leave.
- Sometimes a person.
- When he disappears from our life.
- Leaves a difficult space to fill because he has transmitted emotions to us.
- And other times a person disappears and we feel calm and relieved These are the toxic people.
Learning to identify toxic people takes time and experience, and is also based on a knowledge of ourselves that allows us to value and submit to other people’s criticisms, but how do you identify a toxic person?
A toxic person usually tries to exercise power or play the victim to manipulate others, that way they can do whatever they want and you can do whatever they want, that is why it is important to have high self-esteem, not allow manipulation or that this person affects our emotion.
A toxic person likes to criticize and talk to others behind them, so they can use any story they tell to harm and harm others. Avoid telling a toxic person something and don’t let them lie or speak ill of you or others. .
The need to be loved or accepted is characteristic of a toxic person, they are people who need continuous recognition and acceptance because they create conflicts and are selfish, they think of themselves and not others.
Harvard University conducted an incredible study that examined several people throughout their lives to find out what makes a person happy and healthy. The study was called an “adult development study”.
724 people were analyzed from adolescence to old age, around the age of 75, year after year questions were asked about their work, family life and health, the problem is that the study turned out to be huge and had funding and people who decided to leave it at the end of the study, about 60 people were still alive, at an age of almost 90 years.
After dozens of recorded conversations, analytical studies and brain scans, the conclusion was very clear, according to Robert Waldinger (fourth director of the study): good relationships make us happier and healthier.
I love people who give me energy, trust me, support me in my decisions and do not judge, make me see the positive side of things, encourage me when I am bad and convey their enthusiasm.
I love people who convey their emotion for what they do, for life, who fall in love and who laugh and cry, those people with who, after a few conversations, you want to embrace the world and do millions of things.
A person with positive energy smiles for life, always is where he wants to be, knows how to take care of his body and mind, has learned to relativize his problems and learn from his mistakes, give joy and love to others, knows how I enjoy his moments of solitude and also opportunities. I like that kind of person.