There are people who know how to be with us when we need it most, that is, there are people who know how to be sunny at times when the sky is cloudy and life seems stuck in a storm that we don’t leave out.
Because there are special people who recognize in themselves the beauty of a smile that comes out of the soul, who does not deceive and who is just and serene with herself and with the world. A rare but real species.
- Of course.
- Like everyone else.
- Those who know how to be sunny also make mistakes and have flaws.
- But what stands out is their ability to brighten up a cloudy day of bad thoughts and experiences with a smile.
- Them.
? Are there magical people? I promise you, it won’t work. I have seen them. They are hidden in every corner of the planet, disguised as normal. Hide your specialty. They try to behave like everyone else, which is why sometimes it is so difficult to find them.
But when do you find out? There’s no turning back. You can’t get rid of your memory. Don’t tell anyone, but they say your magic is so strong that if it happens to you once, will it always happen?
-Unknown author-
Empathetic or active listening is practiced by people who by nature are “sunshine on dark days. “Thanks to it you can hear and capture the emotional and personal message that those who go through a difficult day want to convey.
One person who practices empathetic listening notices the other with the intention of understanding his feelings and understanding the point of view of those who interpret the bad day he is living, for only in this way can the frame of reference be understood by the person who is experiencing the situation.
Thus, the brain, which leaves nothing at the mercy, assumes this interest of the other person as something sincere and emotional, which contributes to the release of substances such as serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin, which favor the establishment of the emotional bond.
Embracing sad eyes symbolizes the welcome and support of the world in which we live, common struggle and emotional support.
As we mentioned another time, we need to offer fewer words and more hugs with sad eyes, because when we have a bad day, we tend to appreciate more than a patient heart hears us and not as long as bright minds speak to us.
The need to speak and express what we feel through words, hugs, tears, and caresses responds to how our emotional mind must be regulated to bring order amid chaos.
That is, it is a way of allowing emotion and understanding it, setting aside its denial and, therefore, abandoning the ground of misunderstanding and uncertainty of feeling alone at a time when it is necessary to have a patient and unconditional company.
So you have someone by your side who specializes in the sun?On dark days, it allows you to drive your vehicle on the main road rather than on a snout road, forcing you to stop 20 times to reach the wellness destination.
Humility, simplicity and kindness are three fundamental pillars that help us to be sun, at times when we immerse ourselves in oceans of confusion and problems, why be really tall, you have to be with people and not above.