I like people who leave brands without having to hurt themselves, people who have earned a place in our hearts, taught us the value of friendship, taught us to savor sincerity and to be able to trust, thanks to all these special people, they enriched us and we could feel true happiness. However, we have not been fair to any of them.
We are full of marks from these people that we forget too quickly, not because we do not value everything we live on their side or because we have not given importance to how much the support they have given us has strengthened us, but because we have given greater relevance to all the people who have somehow hurt us.
- We need to know how to differentiate between people who do us good and those who make us feel bad.
- However.
- The decision to let go.
- To walk away or just to disappear is drowning us.
- We let them play with our feelings.
- To continue to mistreat us.
- We are aware of the path we must take.
- But guilt and fear make us doubt.
We put much more emphasis on what makes us negative, perhaps because it is in those moments of sadness, depression or true horror that we begin to appreciate and appreciate what we have. flu, unable to get out of bed, isn’t it true that you enjoy those moments when you’re doing well?However, when you no longer feel bad, this feeling spreads: the usual takes the dust, masks what is really extraordinary.
In the case of relationships the exact same thing happens, people who leave scars often stay longer in our memory, we hold them responsible for our discomfort, we focus a lot on their origin, on what they made us feel. because what we experience through them is negative and our survival instincts continue to resonate in memory form, if fate put us back in a similar situation.
But it is to the people who leave marks, not scars, that we must pay our full attention, thanking all that we have been able to learn about ourselves through these people, being aware of their contribution to our lives, without taking anything away. It is not necessary to suffer or have an injury for someone to rate us, the best marks are subtle, perceptible only to those who know how to appreciate them.
It’s worth focusing on everyone who’s left you something good, yet there’s no point doing this to those who have hurt you and taken advantage of you, if you’ve already taken them out of your life. who, you will end up becoming someone full of sadness who, sooner or later, will develop a deep grudge.
Ask yourself, “What kind of brand do I want to leave?” Because just as there are people who leave marks without hurting themselves, we can become people who also leave footprints without causing harm. Without paying attention to all the people who are worth it. it can be the beginning of an injury that you will leave on others and that will become a huge scar.
While it seems difficult to get rid of memories flooded with pain, the truth is that there are shortcuts to achieving it, just close your eyes, listen to your body and let yourself be carried away by what you want, so it makes you feel good. , those people who have left you a scar will disappear and be replaced by those who have brought you only good things.
Normally you are not the target of any villain, nor that you only have bad letters, you probably just met someone who did not know you better, but you should not regret this, nor in case these people become the protagonists of the trips you make in your memory, the people who deserve all your attention are the ones who were there when many fled , the ones they listened to carefully when many intended to do the same, the ones that didn’t mark you with a scar, but with love.