Albert Einstein said that, in fact, darkness does not exist. He pointed out that darkness is nothing more than the absence of light, and that is what sometimes happens in many people around us.
It is difficult to know why, but we all have friends or family who, in the face of a complicated situation, only provide more negativism, are unable to present strategies, solutions and, lessover, supports.
- But there are people so heterosexual that they are not even aware of their authenticity.
- They are peace in the storm.
- Society in its loneliness and strength in its pains.
We also all know that today there aren’t much of these people, friends and family so they don’t fill their fingers with one hand, and that’s why we have to protect ourselves in some way from those others who only know how to paint. our gray days and our hopes of uncertainty.
We invite you to think about it, even suggesting that if you are one of these people with your own light, never stop shining.
What is the true meaning of a person with his own light?Are we falling into a spiritual er than psychological dimension?It’s not that complicated to define them, let alone recognize them.
Bright people convey ease of treatment and serenity, they are not light at the end of the tunnel because there are no tunnels with them, only quiet paths where life seems easier, where everything is in a subtle balance.
There are many easily identifiable psychological characteristics in these types of profiles, and we are not talking about magic, they are ordinary people who wear the smile every day, who have the right word for the moment you need it.
It’s not the people who practice this arbitrary positivism by giving everyone a “don’t worry, everything will be fine,” by no means.
They know how to establish intimacy because they have great empathy and inner balance. They are positive, but it is a practical positivism based on strategy and balance.
They know when they’re needed and they also know how to make space, they don’t demand, they don’t ask for anything in return. When we are close to them we can be ourselves, without pressure, without having to disguise ourselves, let alone justify ourselves.
They are people who offer light because they are comforting, although they do not solve our problems, which is also not what we ask them to do. You just have to “be there” without judgment, without criticizing, without denigrating.
It is very likely that you are a creature of light, every day you enlighten others by wishing for the best and you do it selflessly because that’s how you feel, because that’s how you understand life and why you wouldn’t know how to do it any other way.
If you offer support and hope to others, you should be careful. There are those who can approach you selfishly, to gain your warmth and integrity. Are there real experts in turning off other people’s light with their shadows?
You should remember that if your way of being and feeling life is to support those around you and live life from this simpler and humblest point of view, you will always shine with your own light.
However, sometimes it can also be exhausted
? It’s easy to see the light in the storm, but sometimes the one next to us can laugh at it, they can call you naive, they can make fun of your nobility by calling you a coward, the typical person others benefit from.
? Remember again what we said at the beginning, taking Einstein’s phrase as a reference: there is no darkness, in fact it is lack of light, that is, we could say that there is no genuine evil in people who make the mistake of attacking their way of being.
? Instead of evil or darkness, there is a lack of emotional intelligence, understanding, empathy, and personal strategies.
? If you shine with your own light, don’t let others turn it off, don’t waste all your energy on those who don’t deserve it.
There are cold planets and deserts orbiting the stars in the hope of receiving their warmth, give them your light if you want or walk away if you lose your strength, why can beings of light, despite their greatness, also be very fragile?
Images courtesy of Sonia Koch, Pascal Campion.