Celibacy, far from being a sentimental state, in fact describes a person who travels through a happy and full stage of his life, without waiting for anything and without the obligation to seek anyone, because being single does not always mean being available; sometimes, simply, the person chooses to commit to himself.
While most surveys support the idea that married people are generally happier than single women, these same surveys also highlight several aspects: the most satisfied couples are those in which spouses are good partners and excellent accomplices; in turn, is it common to go through various relationships until, in the end, the person succeeds?Or not, find the right person to make you happy.
- I don’t wait.
- I’m not looking for: I live my celibacy with satisfaction because I choose to commit.
- Because I don’t need anyone else to understand what happiness is.
What is obvious is that romantic relationships can bring us the most sublime happiness or lead us, overnight, to savor disappointment and sadness. Love is something that is definitely worth living. However, it is not good to make this research the only reason to be and to live.
Happiness, well-being and balance must be born of ourselves, they are like the constant light that guides us through each of our own ways, either in solitude or from someone’s hand.
Not so long ago, the media echoed a report on “surplus women in China. “In this undeniably traditional and patriarchal country, the politics of the only child has changed. Now the drivers of progress demand more labor, which means that women must fulfill their obligations. Creative roles: For example, when a young woman is over 25 years old and has not found a husband, the state media refers to her and her family.
Do these girls get nicknamed? Sheng naked? (surplus women) and are encouraged to be part of a type of transaction to find a forced bond, however, many of these same young people are already showing an important turning point to free themselves from this stigma, defending their celibacy and, above all, all of them fighting for their individuality, which does not fit very well into the “political-communist” context.
Single life, in many countries, becomes a social state and therefore a category, in fact you don’t need to go to the East to see this kind of driving, in closer contexts this kind of idea is a little more implicit, but also present. Singles and singles are not considered ‘surplus’, but rather ‘incomplete’. In fact, in many countries, getting to 40 when you’re single is almost a personal failure.
For example, this simple but explicit illustration is worth it, its author is Idalia Candelas and with her graphic work brings us the delicate reality of single women in Mexico, although degreased, the bachelorette lives in solitude but without suffering, without depressing. You feel safe and enjoy your own business, even if part of the company doesn’t understand it.
A few years ago an article was published that revolutionized academia by uniting two words?Fortunately single? (happy single). For decades, happiness has always been associated with love, the couple, a romantic relationship and coexistence.
Sometimes loneliness is the price of freedom and it teaches us more than any business.
Suddenly, the term? It has become fashionable and even travel agencies and event organizers have seen a new area to “explore”. Now, even though singles are a marketing offer, it’s obvious they’re still looking for the same goal: try the single to find a partner and give up celibacy. Then you fall into the same vicious circle.
A social and commercial irony that contrasts with reality, let’s look at this in detail.
Celibacy is not a crossroads, nor a waiting room in which to wait to re-enter our role as spouses, partners, partners or sentimental companions. There are singles who don’t wait or look.
Where do you expect nothing and, at the same time, wait for everything?