We often cling to someone we love in the hope that he will not stop loving us, that he will not leave, without realizing that we must give the freedom to build a healthy and balanced love.
The fact that someone doesn’t like us affects our ego, but it’s important to learn how to manage our emotions and love each other before loving someone else.
- If you don’t like it.
- Don’t beg or kneel.
- Love doesn’t ask or ask.
- It happens.
- And if not.
- Do you retire with dignity and move on to someone else?Walter Riso?.
One of the reasons it’s hard to let someone go and respect their freedom is emotional attachment.
Emotional attachment is a mental and emotional bond, usually obsessive in nature, with some people, born of the irrational belief that this bond will bring pleasure, security and personal realization.
As a result, the person will feel that without the person he is attached to, he will not be happy, will not be able to achieve his goals and will not have a normal life.
The first thing we need to do to overcome emotional attachment is to see if we really depend on someone or if we experience any of these attachment symptoms:
If you look at your situation and notice that there are previous symptoms, you may find yourself in a situation of emotional attachment.
The most powerful tool against attachment is to be realistic, to see things as they are in relation to love, without anesthesia, without errors, love is always a risk, but you have to see reality.
Love your freedom, love your loneliness. Love to be free, enjoy your freedom, make peace with yourself. Stay with your loneliness, learn from it, live it, love it and love yourself.
“Love does not claim property, but freedom. “
Turn off the TV, computer, mobile phone and enjoy silence and lack of communication. Your brain can relax.
In addition, through silence, we can find time to connect with ourselves.
We often confuse passion with love and they are not the same, passion lasts a while, is attraction, invades your body and mind, does not let you think clearly, does not see the faults of your loved one.
Passion has a number of easy-to-identify features
But love is something much more complex, a set of elements that must always happen together: desire, sex, attraction (Eros), friendship, sharing (Philia) and tenderness and sweetness (Agape).
Sometimes we have to leave those we love for that reason, if we love someone, we have to let them go.
You have to learn to give up a relationship in three situations
Don’t resist pain, cry, talk, scream, don’t suffocate it, don’t hide it, live it, there’s a period of grief you’ll have to go through, and even if it seems like it’s never going to end, after a while you’ll wonder why you felt so bad for someone that it wasn’t worth it.
It is necessary to let some people leave your life so that others can enter it, there is no cure for the pain of an end, you have to endure it and resist it.
“I love my freedom, so I leave the things I love for free. If they come back, I won them. Otherwise, it’s because I never had them. “
-John Lennon-