My way of being is authentic and I don’t have to pretend to be what I am not for others to appreciate me, I’ve been practicing the value of personal dignity for a long time, I’m nobody’s slave and I don’t need to please everyone to be happy.
It is essential to reach this conclusion as soon as possible in our life cycle, something that every adolescent must assume and that everyone must practice to achieve an adequate inner balance and emotional well-being.
- We know that it is not always easy to do that.
- In us we feel that if someone does not love us we will be rejected by the world.
- Life.
- However.
- Is not based on the need for everyone to love everyone: just knowing how to respect.
People feel the need to love their spouse’s family, to get along with their friends, to have an affinity with all the colleagues and people who are part of our social circles, but the main fact that everyone should know is that it is impossible to please Each one is unique, everyone has their own way of being, of seeing the world and of living life.
If you don’t like me, that’s fine, but accept me and respect me. The more likely it is that there will be an aspect of me that can unite, the more likely it is that, despite our differences, we can bring something to ourselves. And if not, it’s no problem either. The bottom line is simply that we accept ourselves as we are: self-esteem is a relationship that must last a lifetime.
You are a gift to yourself and no one can say otherwise, only you know everything you have lived, what you have overcome, your way of being is the window that allows you to see the world with personal intensity, in freedom and in a complete way. .
I am as I am, I do not pretend to be a version of anyone or a puppet guided by the desires of others: I have a voice, a heart and I know all that I deserve in this life to be happy.
Our way of being is not only defined by the characteristics that we are extroverted, shy or introverted, there is a whole palette of colors, full of nuances, in which vital experiences, thoughts and learnings are marked, there are failures and injuries, but there are also triumphs and paths traveled with joy.
Evil teaches and good guides. Each experience is part of our way of being, and then we also talk about the forms of education we receive, the values we assume or renounce, and the essence of the people who go through our lives.
Buddhism has said since ancient times: if you strive to please everyone, you will only find suffering and unhappiness, it is not worth it, it is not necessary to please those who have a selfish heart, who do not recognize it, who lack nobility. and that simply don’t correspond to the way you understand the world.
I am part of everything I have found in my way so far, my way of being is my essence and my identity. I’ve had a hard time getting to where I am today and I can’t afford to look like something I’m not just to make you happy.
If we think about it, nothing can bring more stress and emotional suffering than trying to please everyone, on the other hand, we also know that discontent can lead to more than criticism and disapproval.
Life is diversity and the world has so many nuances that it is worth adopting one, being authentic and always maintaining its dignity. Love yourself for who you are, just like you are.