In our life cycle we accumulate different types of social relationships, friendships from childhood that never expire, casual companions, casual encounters that take on more value than the family itself?
You could say that our daily life is composed of a complex social kaleidoscope where emotions and feelings can be very different and even contradictory.
- However.
- What we value most about people is authenticity.
- Because humble people smell simple and shine in that integrity that knows no blackmail.
- Accusations or double meanings.
Think with us now of a very simple question: how many people are there in your life? Think not only of your friends, but also of your family.
The count of these people may not reach the fingers of one hand, they are pillars in your daily life, axes of rotation in your soul, in your heart, references that never fail, and with which you can be yourself, without fear of judgment.
Let’s talk today in our space about the people who come to us every day for no reason, just because, because you exist, because it’s you.
Friends, loves and family? Important people who are in your life without ropes, without weight and without suffocation, just share life, find it.
We used to say that people come into the world as if they had fallen out of a chimney.
No one has the opportunity to choose a type of family or parenting style they will receive from them. We can’t change our families, but over the years we can choose how we relate to them.
Blood makes a family, but there are situations in which the people who make it up make us prisoners of their bonds, of the bars that hinder our personal growth.
On the other hand, the same is not true when one leaves this first family environment to enter the complex field of social and emotional relations What kind of people do you usually include in your life?
There are many types of personalities that can join you. Some will adapt to the puzzle of your preferences, the atlas of your affections and the field of your emotions, but?
How do we know which people are best placed to give us genuine happiness?
It’s not a “I gave you this and now you owe me that. “There is nothing material; it is an emotional reciprocity and a compatibility where there is no blackmail, let alone the need of the other to fill gaps or specific problems of each one.
There are those who say that there are not many real people, that everyone cares about looking like what they are not or what it should be.
Authentic people exist and know how to show themselves as they are, accept their virtues and recognize their flaws, they do not need to defend themselves from anything.
He who is authentic practices sincerity, but in turn we know that it is a kind of sincerity that helps and comforts, and that at no time seeks to attack or judge his actions or words.
? Often, and especially in the family sphere, usually appear the technique of treatment and punishment, the?Did you already know that this would lead to nothing, I mean it for your own good, but aren’t you made to take this path?
? Authentic, humble and sincere people do not judge lightly and do not criticize, because everyone who is authentic has a good self-knownness and deep empathy.
We must not fall into the deception of relying on people to be happy, to fill the other half of the sofa, or to be heard by our daily concerns.
Just as we seek authenticity in others, we must practice the same kind of behavior within ourselves.
If you currently have people in your closest social context who offer hidden interests or motives, or those types of people who continue to put several threads around you, think about what you should do to feel better.
Courtesy images: Karin Taylor, Nina de San.