I’m not going to trade for you, don’t ask me to be nicer, thinner, or give up my passions to fill your gaps. I appreciate myself as I am, so you’ll have to accept me with all my peculiarities because it’s my way of being that’s my happiness, my integrity.
They say that people tend to vary their personality at certain times for three reasons: to adapt to a certain context, to achieve a goal or to avoid something that displeases or scares us and, believe it or not, the same thing happens in many. Romantic relationships.
- There are those who.
- Even today.
- Think that being in a couple is giving up everything for each other.
- Without exceptions.
- It is in these situations that many gradually lose their identity.
- Their openness and come closer to the way they are the loving couple to integrate into it.
- And thus achieve a goal that sooner or later no longer makes sense.
Whoever resigns loses, whoever changes what is defined to make another happy ceases to be what it is, in this way the relationship can only be a farce, doomed to failure where one dominates and the other remains under a mask that does not allow to be who it really is. Don’t play this game.
Personality is a psychological construct that is built throughout our lives through the experiences and reflections we have on them. We are a set of virtues, limits, habits, values, dreams and expectations that we cannot change overnight. It wouldn’t be healthy or logical.
There are those who strive to change the world to adjust it to their expectations, without first understanding that life itself already brings us many changes, and then we must have a strong personality, but capable of adapting, capable of facing unforeseen events.
It is important to point out one important aspect: change is not bad if change starts on its own. People need some variations in thought approaches, goals and attitudes to adapt, achieve balance, and personal growth.
You don’t have to say things you don’t think about, give reasons just to please, look like others expect you to be. If you keep this attitude, there will come a time when you really don’t know who you are. , what you want or what keeps you going.
People change every day, but we never lose our essences, principles and values, so we must not abandon what defines us, because if we do we will stop being ourselves.