The love of my life is me. And to say it out loud is not an act of selfishness or pride, it is a reflection that we must all internalize every day, as one who starts his morning with a good cup of coffee.
It’s not selfish who cares, who solves their fears, who heals their wounds, who leaves behind what hurt him to face tomorrow with optimism and resistance. Because if I’m okay, I can do my best to others. I can be happy and offer happiness.
- I don’t need to be better than anyone else.
- I don’t need to have what you have.
- It is enough for me and I stay to be myself.
- To be the love of my life to offer you the best that dwells in my peaceful soul.
- My serene heart.
- Devoid of hatred or resentment.
Even if it surprises us, it is not easy to reach that state in which we can love each other fully and without limits, one way or another, we are almost used to prioritizing not only the needs of others, but also often?To things as if they were our only identity: work, house, money?
There are many dimensions that cover us layer by layer of a plastron where, little by little, we lose the essence that is love for oneself.
Because we must never forget that if we are fine, the world will be fine, if your thoughts and emotions do not vibrate with the inner harmony of self-respect, your reality will be distorted, we invite you to think about it in this space.
At some point, you may forget that the love of your life is you, because you’ve prioritized others too much, or you may never have noticed that as a child you’ve been projected with insecurity and certain values that you’ve never prioritized. you as a person.
Is there always a time when we have to give up things, people, situations?Some will call it selfishness, but I call it self-esteem.
Having self-love is not something taught in schools, in fact, it is something that we all discover little by little as someone who finds a power weapon that no one had told him about before Why does this usually happen?
Whatever circumstances have led us to forget that the pillar of our lives we are ourselves, it is never too late to find this haven of peace. This inner strength with which to return to our balance to be happy and to offer well-being to those we love. Those who really deserve it.
As you walk the paths of your life, you will find that what matters is not the amount of things you have, but what they are worth.
We invite you to take note of a number of aspects on which to reflect, breathe and think calmly, to always remember that in reality, the love of your life is you.
Dare to love yourself and give yourself to what you deserve, because loving yourself is nothing left to love others, it means recognizing and being happy, because when you start to be happy, the best things in life come together.
Image courtesy of Pascal Campion, Helene B. Jacson.