I stayed with you because you wanted to be with me when I didn’t want to be myself. You accompanied me in the darkest moments, when I turned my back. I choose to have you in my life because you make me a better person, because I can’t laugh or cry like I do by your side.
The truth is, I choose it because I decide who I want to be with, because it’s one of the few things where we really have freedom and nothing makes me happier than sharing my life with the people I want to have by my side. .
- One of the reasons I want you to be in my life is that you showed me that you wanted to stay there.
- Maybe this is even more important: no one can fill us up better than anyone who wants to do it honestly.
- People.
- We are unable to discover their place in our daily lives.
- But we quickly understand that every detail counts to stay or leave.
Contrary to what has happened to you, I also choose who should not be in my life or try to make the decision to forgive, to decide whether it is necessary, to let it go or not. What happens is that nothing in our lives is certainty, let alone our relationships: no one can assure us that our biological family, for example, will be what we will call the family later.
When we realize, growing up is just surviving: basically, the people who love us are really the family we have, the family we choose, for the rest of the people who go through our lives and are toxic relationships that don’t bring us anything. , it is better to let them go, because there is no better gift for those who will know how to lose them.
“I want to ask you to stay, but I won’t. There are things that must be born of a person, such as staying, wanting to stay.
-Anonymous-
The advantage of making decisions is that we can get rid of many things that hurt us, so do people: deciding who we want to share our lives with allows us to bet on happiness, being with those who make life stronger and happier.
Image courtesy of Pascal Campion.