Being happy is critical. It is so true that we travel in search of happiness as if we were children and played hide-and-seek with it, but should we look for it?What if we’re happy now? Then maybe our lives don’t make sense.
Although we can’t always smile, we force ourselves to. Have you noticed that sadness is not well considered? Without being aware, we mask the negative feelings and emotions we feel.
- Stop looking for reasons to feel unhappy.
- Focus on the things you already have and the thousands of reasons why you should be very happy.
Where to find happiness? Since we are a child we are taught to follow certain steps to achieve this, one is to find a good job that allows us to survive and have some economic tranquility.
However, this happiness is not only in the professional sphere, but also in our relationships, forming a partner and having children will be the big point for many, but what happens when the result is not as expected?What if we’re still unhappy?
When, despite all these steps, we are unable to achieve the happiness we long for, sadness invades us by making us feel terribly miserable, that is where we begin to think that perhaps we do not deserve a life full of smiles.
All the signs that show us the way to be happy only make this a very difficult expectation to achieve, because even if we want to embrace, happiness is not what we were told and for that we just need to open our eyes and look around. We.
“There are two ways to spread happiness, the shining light or the mirror that reflects it.
-Edith Wharton-
When you do, you will be aware that those who possess the most are not the happiest and that humble people are the ones who always smile, this is because they appreciate how little they have and because they know that happiness is not achieved beforehand. beliefs, but that being happy is an attitude.
These people know that they don’t need anyone to smile, and they don’t feel like a loser because they’ve accepted that life is hard and that we don’t always get what we want, despite all this, they look to the future with optimism and keep fighting for what they want.
In a way, we have to be happy, give our best smile when we just want to cry. To do this, just look at the self-help books that guide us on how to feel better about ourselves and others all the time.
The big problem is that it is impossible to be really happy 24 hours a day, mainly because positive emotions coexist with negative ones, we always try to escape them because we consider them of little benefit to our well-being.
So, most of the time we show our best smile and pretend to be happy, it seems that this is how we are more accepted, we integrate more easily, positivism is what stands out because it makes us feel better for everyone.
Decide anything, make sure it makes you happy
It hides our true emotions when we feel really bad, without realizing it we can find smiles that keep sadness, laughter that hides terrible tears, laughing eyes that try to hide a terrible inner pain.
What if I decide not to be happy? There are a lot of people who wish they weren’t happy, even if it seems strange.
We want to be happy once we have achieved professional and family success, finding well-being and balance in all areas, goals and other goals that, once achieved, do not euphoric us, at least not for the rest of our lives.
No one has your happiness, so don’t leave your joy, your peace, your life in anyone’s hands.
Being happy is a mood that coexists with many others, so, like sadness or any other emotion, she lives in you, if you look inside, you will realize that from this same place all the alternatives you can control to be happy are born.
Value what’s around you and stop looking always good. I know who you are and don’t let anything or anyone force you to be what you really aren’t. Far from everything you’ve been told will make you happy and what you’ve already tried is not true. Happiness is in us.