In this world on our backs, we need people who act face to face, without fear, without hesitation, so when presenting your indifference to someone, it is better to do so without hesitation and with firmness and calm. look of those who know how to say ‘enough’, of those who are not afraid to put limits on what they do not want or to disturb their balance.
We all know that few components are as essential to human relationships as the recognition of the other, through this interaction, this almost always significant and authentic deference, we exist, learn and grow as people, however, when a real bond hurts us or makes us unhappy, we must also know?Recognize the offense and react instead of running away, turn around.
“The real conflict is not between good and evil, but between knowledge and ignorance. -Bouddha-
One thing we should not forget is that it is always better to lose the relationship with a person than to lose one’s own health, but, freeing ourselves from this bond or this problematic relationship, we must act with maturity, coherence and with proper emotional intelligence Because whoever simply chooses to turn around does not know how to act head-on.
We have to have the right skills to deal with these kinds of situations, we will feel more empowered, satisfied and enjoy a better quality of life and mental health.
If we think about it, we will see that we live in a world full of people accustomed to turning our backs on many things around them, sometimes they do not do it malicefully or intentionally, it is just a matter of ego, of that. Invented identity that we build over time until we are suspended on the island of solitude, where it only tells what happens within the confines of our small psychic and emotional plot.
Perhaps for this reason, those who are not accustomed to treating people they love with empathy and gratitude will also not know how to properly manage their conflicts, because if there is something they don’t like, it doesn’t help much to run. or adopt a childish attitude that can make those who don’t like it, that don’t fit their scores, or who are simply against it be made unvisitable.
Problems face each other. Conflicts are confronted, because ultimately our existence is not a straight line without curves, nor an ethical scenario where we advance as beings immune to differences or shocks. Therefore, doing so with maturity and intelligence will allow us to build a more valuable, firmer and rewarding concept.
We love all people who get involved, who take sides, who have a voice and opinion about things and who also dare to defend them, this vital energy is in turn linked to an almost magical commitment to oneself. Because any personality, with good self-esteem doesn’t hide or walk away, but it will use the right assertiveness to clearly express what he doesn’t like and why he doesn’t like it.
“Your attitude to things is what will make the real difference in life. – Winston Churchill-
Here are some strategies to deal with your differences with those around you.
Gestalt therapy is always a good strategy to deal with such situations, its holistic approach allows us to adopt principles as important as responsibility, sincerity and self-respect.
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In conclusion, in this world where the back is abundant, let us learn to act face to face, if only to present a silence, if only to offer an elegant look where the wisest indifference shines.
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