Gender-based violence is a problem for all, not just victims Does traditional society teach us to disparage and subjugate the feminine, to judge women by appearance, and not to have mercy when it comes to whether or not a woman has too much or not enough?Sex?
We tell the children that “if the partner hits you it’s because he loves you,” and we use this bad example to educate our children.
- Because maybe why are children cruel?In fact.
- This has much more to do with the conscious and unconscious cruelty of society in the adult world.
- We can all effortlessly understand what expressions like “Run like a girl.
- ” “Fight like a girl.
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- “Laugh like a girl?” And all its aspects.
How do we be a girl, we took the spectrum off our strength, we became weak, incompetent and stupid. But worst of all, we live together, understand, and, at worst, tolerate these kinds of “beliefs. “total naturalness.
Every year, thousands of women die at the hands of people who murder and abuse them simply because they are women. Unfortunately and simply said, this is the sad reality.
There are millions of violent people who are the product of a historical system of subjugation and oppression of women, which justifies us being exploited, objectivizing, reducing, mastering and killing us.
Because? Because we live in a sick society that tolerates a woman’s vision as an inferior being and creates beings that they believe can appropriate and direct a woman’s body and feelings.
We need to start by educating and educating our children and young people equally. We have to bet on leaving out the ideals? A helpless princess and a violent man, because they are at the heart of women’s mistreatment.
Because murder, the most visible part of gender-based violence, is the last step on a scale that begins with poor education, fuels addictions and needs, generates abuse, and ends up killing physically and psychologically.
In this sense, for example, there is a high percentage of the world’s population who do not understand psychological violence as gender abuse, or who do not understand the fact that?It’s assaulting the person involved.
Our society, therefore, needs to do a great educational work, because only pedagogy can save us from violence, so today we want to remember that?
? Social and emotional isolation is an example of abuse
? Emotional blackmail is an example of abuse.
? Undercover and covert insults are an example of abuse.
? Controlling mobile phones, personal accounts and social media is an example of abuse.
? Threats and contempt are an example of abuse
? Clothing control is an example of abuse.
? Emotional indifference is an example of abuse.
? Verbal aggression, dominant behavior (which threatens to end the relationship) and jealousy are an example of abuse.
? Social, occupational or economic discrimination is an example of abuse.
Therefore, if we start from the bottom up, we will get a well-trained castle to nurture a largely healthy society free of abuse, violence and prejudice.
Is it especially important to ‘re-edit from an early age’ given the ‘rejuvenation of abuse’ that manifests itself today. Submission in the name of love is fully standardized in most of our youth and adolescents.
This is where love is the most idealized and succumbs to the model of delicate princesses who need a prince to protect them and help them through life with the strength, determination, audacity and domination that must characterize a great man.
We trivialize and normalize violent behaviors and insert into our minds the idea that everything goes in love, and that if you can’t stand it, you don’t fight for your love. “
Not only should we educate about equality, but also the responsibility to deal with violence and against women as women, is it essential that we teach this?Saying NO is also possible and, above all, necessary.
Should we break the isolation of the rose? and hold these toys, objects, clothing and tools that help us educate our children on the value of equality.
That what surrounds our children is what helps them think and have a judgment of their own, that promotes the ability to improve skills and brings technology closer as something fun and attractive.
We must also teach children that there is a way to be a man. Being male means being affectionate, caring for others, expressing emotions, respecting, fighting for gender equality, avoiding the sacrifices and sufferings to which women are subjected, abandoning violence, caring for the house, etc.
Hopefully we can soon erase from the calendar that November 25th is the day against gender-based violence. Hopefully we can get rid of him and forget that he exists, because then there will come a time when women will not be vulnerable and no one will believe that they have the right to mistreat them or do whatever they want in their life. Life.
Remember, when they abuse a woman, everyone abuses us.