During the holidays or at Christmas, we lived as if we were children, with a fascinating energy that made us feel happy, not because we had received a gift, but because of the aura of mystery and dreams that made everything different from yours. . Childhood was full of imagination, dreams and games.
If we remember childhood this way it’s because at least part of it was worth it, we dream of things that weren’t entirely true, but sometimes it takes imagination in this life, kids dream like crazy without knowing if they’re going to be disappointed. in the future, because they still don’t know that when their imagination collapses, only the truth remains, which is sometimes difficult.
- I don’t want to fool the children around me.
- I just want them to have the best version of my childhood.
- I want to make them dream.
- But I also want to explain to them that repentance and fear should not guide their lives.
Childhood is an unrecoverable treasure. A time when everything seemed so simple that I think, without fear of making mistakes, that it is the true life of the human being in the world.
Childhood consists of discovering and exploring through the senses. Everything that happens around a child is a matter of curiosity, he awakens the world through his senses and it is with him that he will grow up and experience new experiences.
Many times I have seen how many children have doubts about the gift to ask for for Christmas or a birthday, I would like to give you a tip: ask for help finding a secret place, can it be an abandoned place, including this huge school, house or park, a hiding place that allows them to take refuge and explore?
You also have to play with jumping puddles, even if they get dirty, if they don’t as children, as adults it will be much harder and they deserve that feeling, they live with an animal, when they grow up. above, they will realize, in tears, their first precious emotional learning.
The thing is, in childhood, we develop through the senses and there is no better way to start doing it than through play, for them the game is an open door to uncertainty and curiosity, which should not be missed.
Constructive criticism can help a child get the best out of himself, develop potential emotional skills, and latent but latent abilities; however, a destructive critique, on the verge of insult or mockery, may end up being recorded forever. And if it happens in front of other people, it gains strength.
I would never wish that on a child. A child needs to feel unique and special, full of love, but also discipline. Giving love to children is never a form of poor parenting. Tell them stories so they feel so good that they think they’re going through what they’re going through. dreaming is also not dangerous, through the magical atmosphere of stories, values, fashions, ambitions, overcomings, the rules of coexistence and the difficulty of human relations.
There is nothing to comfort a child more than attention, to feel that, when you leave school, someone will pick you up and remember to bring your favorite treat, excite the children, be greeted with a kiss, a smile or a hug is already perfect for them.
Kids are addicted to hugs, they love it!It’s the best way to know you’re protected. A hug is proof that your world is safe, even if sometimes you’re very afraid. Snuggle up as often as possible. Kiss your cheeks without rest when you do something right. Children generate endorphins through the continuous affection demonstrations they receive, reducing their frustration and consequently aggression.
Some parents or guardians believe that discipline is achieved through authority, but in reality, authority must be given as a sign of children’s autonomy, in order to promote their lifelong independence, self-control and self-esteem.
“As I read about the lives of the great men, I discovered that the first victory they had obtained was over themselves. Self-discipline was the main one. “
? Harry S. Truman?
When a child realizes that he has been given confidence, he does not want to betray him, that confidence will invigorate his autonomy, the discovery and validation of his points of view, he will understand that there will come a time when discipline and discovery will disappear. Hand in hand, even if I have a? Supervisor? Supervising your every step will not prevent you from taking risks and falling, even if there is always someone to pick you up.
I believe, without a doubt, that a good childhood prevents, in the future, from breaking up again and again, that it is fear or guilt, that is why I wish the best version of my childhood to all children, only to a generation created like this. can repair the evils of this world.
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