I could wish you many things, use prefabricated phrases and repeat the same usual speech, but I want to wish you less pride, less alienation and more love for life.
This may seem a little contradictory coming from me, that I was once the proudest of all creatures, but only because I knew pride would not take me anywhere, I decided to write this post for those who, like me, never disappointed their guards for fear of being hurt.
- I wanted to tell you first that there is a reason to justify your pride: your unconscious fear of being rejected.
- Of suffering.
- Of being hurt.
In fact, studies show that the facts of your childhood have played and play a critical role in your current behavior.
A child who has been rejected, who has been harassed, will become the shy teenager, always moody and defensive, because he has become accustomed to attack. Involuntary feelings and attitudes that make us prisoners, bitter and unhappy.
I always had a short temper, I was never friends with patience and I didn’t give anyone a chance. My life motto was “hit the ball, it’s over. “I wanted a world of perfection, where there are no mistakes, not one hurts you, no one lets you down.
I didn’t admit that I had to forgive the people who hurt me, but in the end, I realized that we are all imperfect beings prone to error, because our biggest challenge in this world is to evolve.
Ultimately, what will matter is learning, lessons, and how much we improve and grow mentally and spiritually.
But this shouldn’t and can’t justify the same mistake being repeated multiple times, because making mistakes is human, but staying in error is stupid, so if you’re not perfect and you know you can make mistakes like anyone else, why not forgive?Why not give love another chance, or maybe even a friendship?
Talking about how we feel can be a big challenge, but it’s very good!Talk about what you didn’t like, what you liked and love, talk openly about problems and disappointments without it becoming a fight, an exchange of offenses.
Talking openly about your feelings won’t make you an idiot, but it will show anyone that you have the courage to love and that you’re not ashamed to tell anyone.
We will be practical and solve what annoys us, forgive if necessary, avoid those who do us no good and add nothing to us, and we will fight, without fear, without shame, for love, for the right to be happy anywhere and with doing our best and the impossible to make our craziest dreams come true and that nothing and no one takes away our hope for better days. For moments of pain, for days without color, use your best smile. That’s great, in you!
Time passes fast, then less drama, less victimization, less mimimi, less?Your desire makes me succeed ?, and more love, more laughter, more forgiveness, more understanding, more kindness, more harmony, more brotherhood!
Can our only competence be with our limits, and success, the achievements of others, can serve us only as inspiration, and never envy or bitter us for thinking that we are inferior to or inferior to our “neighbor”.
Everyone has their destiny, everyone has a way to go, so focus on your way, otherwise you’ll get lost, you don’t need an outdoor event, a calendar date or a hardware acquisition to feel complete, realized and happy.
Whether you don’t have to wait until the new year to change habits that don’t do you any good, set goals, or be inspired to change.
Let your mind, your strength to do and be better, renew daily and not just once a year, we follow an artificial protocol that decides the day of the week, the month and the year we live.
According to the human calendar, we are in early 2017, but today is another day of your life, where you have the opportunity to remake everything, and tomorrow and then as well.
Don’t expect a reason to change, don’t look for excuses to make difficult decisions and get out of your comfort zone. Start today, start now and don’t ignore the desires of your heart, don’t ignore these crazy dreams, these dangerous wills.
Be happy with all the fullness your soul deserves. No matter how imperfect you are, no matter how wrong you are, no matter how much you feel sinful, you deserve to be happy.
Your repentance, your desire to be better is all that God wants from you, that divine light illuminates your dark days, that happiness, peace, and abundance may be present in your home, every day of your life.