You’re again worried and sorry for what you’ve done or what’s happened. The speech is always the same, boring and repetitive, blaming itself for the mistakes you made or the decisions you didn’t make.
The images come to mind constantly, the words you say are the echo that doesn’t leave you, your feelings, a limiting prison, as the minutes go by without realizing it, without appreciating them?
- “Perhaps if I had said how I felt.
- We would not have gone further? If I had made another choice.
- Wouldn’t it have been like that at that time? Essential to choose what I want?” I never say that I thought it was bad when he didn’t ask me how I was doing.
And so, laments and questions can become an infinite cycle, which you know when it starts, but is it impossible to know when it ends, because it has no end?
You can challenge yourself as much as you want, destroy yourself little by little if that’s what you want, even if I think your interior isn’t really what you’re looking for.
Stop and think, why are you doing this?” How far will your moans and mental noise take you?And, well read, for what?
If you’re honest with yourself and answer these questions, you can find out more than you think. You can find your hidden need.
And now, delve into this question: is it worth regretting your mistakes, do you really think it’s just mistakes?
Before I continue with the dynamic of blaming you and being a victim I will tell you one thing: these are not just mistakes, these are opportunities, think about it, how many learnings are behind it?
It’s just a matter of wanting to move forward and evolve, rather than standing still and stagnant, as if we had a chain tied to our ankles, which anchors us in the past.
You can try it right away, if you want. Choose one of your mistakes and think about what you can learn from the situation or experience.
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Chance
Hidden
Maybe you’ve done it before and you haven’t even noticed?
And all you are today is because of what you did and what you didn’t do, for your success, but also because of your failures. And maybe more the second than the first.
Of everything you’ve done so far, of the whole process of your life, you certainly have many things to be proud of or what you’re proud of, and isn’t it because of your difficulties and the learning you’ve had that you’ve had?All?
Shall I let you answer? And listen, because what you’re saying is a message that’s addressed to you.
And I’m not just talking about your successes, your dreams, and your goals; something much closer to you: your qualities, your dice, your way of being, your essence, do you think they have nothing to do with your mistakes?
For everything you’ve been through, everything you’ve felt, thought about, done, has had an impact, but it’s also resonated with you, it’s up to you how to use them, if you want to squeeze them out and get their juice out, or keep the parts rotten and dry?Go or dive into their depths and find the wisdom that accompanies them.
mistakes
are doors
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Every fact, every thought and every feeling lived has had a number of consequences in our lives, the important thing is to be aware that everything you are today has been affected by what happened or did not happen in the past. And if we erase everything, our mistakes, learning would disappear too.
Simply by removing or reducing any jokes, we wouldn’t be the same, so instead of taking our time worrying about the possibility of doing things differently, should we worry about making the most of ourselves in every situation, every moment, every second?