As long as I don’t hurt the other person’s right, I don’t have to agree with what doesn’t fit my thinking, swallow when I raise my voice, be afraid to give up, pretend I love someone who doesn’t do me any good, live according to what others expect of me and their choices.
We are surrounded and bombarded, all day, every day, by rules, precepts, recipes and advice on what to do and what not to do. Laws govern our conduct in society, at work, in trafficking, even in death processes. Obviously, boundaries are necessary when we live in society. However, we have to consider what we actually take for our lives, otherwise we will stifle our journey under the weight of what we are supposed to do.
- I don’t have to agree with what doesn’t fit my way of thinking just to please others.
- I have dreams of my own feelings.
- Of my will.
- That no one knows me better than I do.
- So I’ll have to try.
- Living my truths in the best possible way.
- Disagreeing with what contradicts me.
- Or breathing like a robot.
- Unhappy and frustrated.
I don’t have to swallow saliva when they raise my voice for no reason, when I’m offended by my dignity, when I’m deliberately attacked, so that I can fulfill my autonomy as a person, so that I may be respected as a person. citizen, I will have to impose myself, be seen. The other will only know how far he can advance on me if I clarify the limits of my patience.
I do not have to insist on a relationship that is already doomed to failure, for fear of surrendering, to start over, to give me new opportunities to be happy, my retreats are courageous, they are thought, they are rethentful, they are taking time and many tears, to get caught in a void of two that only hurts, by the oppressive gaze of those who do not live with me , nor do they share my rice and beans, it’s one of the worst decisions I can make. .
I don’t have to pretend I love someone who doesn’t do me any good, who doesn’t add, add or add anything, as long as I keep respect, I won’t give yellow smiles. false, hypocritical, selfish and cowardly people. Keeping a safe distance from everything and all those who release negativity will make me happier and more satisfied.
I don’t have to live by what others expect of me, dress according to what the windows sell, listen to what the radio pushes me, I’m not subject to archaic patterns that just flatten everything that makes my heart vibrate. I am someone who feels, loves and hates to the rhythm of my essence, of what my intimate crying, if it is mine, if necessary, so alive in me.
I don’t have to cry in secret when sadness invades me, simply because others can find me a weak person, my strength comes exactly from pain, my reinforcement is exactly reborn in my emotional storms, that is, my tears serve to empty what decreases. me, so that the void will fill with the desire to start over.
I am not obliged to submit to the rudeness of my superiors, as if we lived in the time of slavery, as if paying wages were a precondition for annulling myself to the world, to be free from humanity. , dignity and feeling that is inherent to me. I can’t afford to accept inhumane submission and daily bullying for something to eat.
I am not obliged to accept everything that happens to me with resignation, containing my revolt, adding frustrations in punishing my body and my mental health. I have the right to defend myself, to defend myself, to shout my pain, so I can rebalance myself and move on, always, free from what happened.
As long as I do not hurt the right of the other, as long as I do not transpose anyone, I can turn away from everything and all those who stand in my serene way, ignoring what is not my place, taking what helps me stay with those who bring me the truth, who bring me the light, for whom I can be all that I have, for whom I accept and welcome , without delay, with integrity and a sincere smile. , yes, I have to.